Patient Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Hey guys.So from my last thread most know my situation.me and my ex broke up and I found out I was pregnant.We werent ok at first we fought alot etc but lately weve been ok.so ive been getting random emails and they are always late at night from him saying im not going to deal with you like that and im done with that or if I contact him concerning the baby or a dr appt he brings us being together up randomly saying hes not gonna be with me..like we could be talking about anything and he will say that...completely off subject..its always random.I dont discuss old relationship stuff with him I have not presented the idea of being back with him hes hurt me too much im not going there with him baby or not.I cant and wont be woth him.its like hes trying to convince himself i dunno.My question is why does he randomly say that? Why keep bringing it up? Im tired of it.The feeling is mutual and like I said I dont discuss this with him.its strictly baby business.someone help please?
zen2475 Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 It doesn't matter why he is doing it. What matters is how you feel about it and the boundaries you need to set for yourself to protect yourself from further hurt. If this contact bothers or upsets you, you need to tell him to keep his communication limited to subjects regarding the baby and that's it. If you are speaking with him and he brings the relationship up again, cut him off and tell him you have nothing to say about it and that he should stick to what you have agreed to discuss. Be firm but polite. 2
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