sm2281 Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 So. Last time i visited this foru i had some pretty hefty questions about divorce. That all ended badly but has been over for a while now. My new situation has me confused though. I just dont know what is acceptable behavior in a new relationship. Like. How long is it okay to keep a "friend zone" full of people you are interested in and who are interested back once exclusive. Is it normal to wait months before adding social media ? Is it okay to keep exes hanging around(i think not but other ppl think differently) How long shoukd you wait before moving in together? What is acceptable when jeaousy is solicited ( yes i know ita useless, im not a superbly jealous person but whats mine is mine and im only human) Idk i try to ve rational and i am enjoying my new partner but he seems reluctant sometimes and im new to this. So for example we see eachother twice a week (sometimes for days amd dayd) and thr sex is good. He says he is "falling" and he is sweet to my face. But anytimr inask for the tiniest favor he seems annoyed and when we are together he acts like he has all this stuff to do. Then he takes tiny stabs that instill jealousy (openly talks about his relationship with women and exes and refuses to let go of his friend zone ladies) i know im new to this but i know exactly what the friend zone if for and i am not okay with hin keeping people for later. Bit hr is quite encouraginf and sweet. I pay for all ky own stuff though and buy him dinnet most nights he is here. Im a single mom so we do home dates alot (he is single no kids). I find it odd we have only been out to stores and he invited me on a date but its been friggen 4 months. Idk. Maybe i like him but we r just too different? What do yall think. Please add things that you would consider normal for a 4 month relationship. Thank you
Author sm2281 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 Oh also i have a hadicapped kid and i thi k he might be embarrassed of him. If that is the case then i am not going to cramp his atylr and to be honest he would be cramping mine. But he is nice to him. Just i think he doesnt know what to expect in public or he is embarrassed. Idk. I can ask.
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