Thegreatestthing Posted August 9, 2014 Share Posted August 9, 2014 When someone has an idealised vision of you how do you bring them down to reality. I feel like this one guy has such an idealized Vision of me that I.m always going to muck it up.i can't just be. I also feel like I have an idealised version of him but I feel less like I'll be disappointed. Link to post Share on other sites
Eivuwan Posted August 9, 2014 Share Posted August 9, 2014 When someone has an idealised vision of you how do you bring them down to reality. I feel like this one guy has such an idealized Vision of me that I.m always going to muck it up.i can't just be. I also feel like I have an idealised version of him but I feel less like I'll be disappointed. I don't know if you can. They will know in time that you're not perfect. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted August 9, 2014 Share Posted August 9, 2014 You can't change the way people will think of anything. You can only prove them wrong in time and see what they'll think then. Link to post Share on other sites
WesternWizard Posted August 9, 2014 Share Posted August 9, 2014 TBH I'd probably feel rather offended if a woman idealized me. In the past, there have been a few women who tried to hit on me because they read me wrong, and formed totally incorrect ideas about me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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