purplesoccer34 Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 I met a guy online and we had pretty lengthy conversations. We met in person last week for the first time and he said he wanted to see me again this weekend. I feel like he's a great guy but I'm not yet completely sure whether I like him. I feel like I need to go on at least one more date to figure out whether I'm actually interested. We haven't yet made a definite plan for this weekend. There's another guy who I talked to who also seemed interesting, so I agreed to meet up with him this weekend. Something tells me I'll end up liking this guy more than the first so I really want to meet him. I'm obviously not exclusive with either one of them since I don't even know them well. Is it wrong that I'm going on dates with 2 guys at once? I want to see how the second date with the first guy goes. I also really want to meet the second guy cause he seems interesting. For some reason, I'm not even thinking of these as dates. I just want to meet these guys in person several times so I can get to know them as people, and not a bunch of online messages. Is there anything wrong with this? Is it considered cheating in a sense?
d0nnivain Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 No. It's not cheating. It's multi dating. See them in whatever order & how ever many number of times you want (as long as they are willing) 1
Assasda Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 I dont see anything wrong with this, as long as you can sense when youre getting serious with one of them, to cut the other off
Mrin Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Not at all. Nothing wrong with this in the slightest.
DazedandConfused8 Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Nothing wrong with what you're doing. You're not exclusive with either, you're playing the field. But, if either of them become exclusive, don't try stringing along one "just in case" the other doesn't work out.
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