Thegreatestthing Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 I've known this guy online for a decade in that time he only saw four pictures of me and never asked for anymore ,it was pretty much the same for me never asking for any ,in that time I feel like from those few photos and conversations he has this ideal of me and the reason he doesn't want more photos or more anything in general is because it would ruin this ideal he has of me. I just know from things he said that he some ideal of me,even getting to know me more would ruin his ideal. He did ask to skype recently and I sent him a recent photo the other day but I was so worried after.... that it has ruined this ideal he had of me that he might hate it,it's not normal.I know exactly the vision he has of me based on things he's said and I don't think I can live up to it. I also know I've done ecaxtly the same thing to him all these years. Is it better to leave it all in lala land or try for a reality.
todreaminblue Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 its never good to build someone up to an ideal its always better to keep it real.....because really you have to know the person who is standing in front of you the person who will be in the relationship with you not the ideal of someone who will be in a relationship with you but the person......talk to him honestly about how this ideal makes you uncomfortable because it does.....let him know you would prefer to keep it real....or it just wont last.....good luck ....deb
Assasda Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 If you enjoy being fetishized by all means stay in la la land. It seems like you do anyway
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