jangle04 Posted February 26, 2005 Posted February 26, 2005 Well it has been three months now since the ex left me for another guy. It has been the wierdest three months of my life and a heck of a rollercoaster ride. I wish I had more time to give advice to others on this site but I've been going through enough problems of my own. Sorry guys. I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who responded. Yes it is true time heals all wounds. I've had a couple of beers tonight and I am home with the kids where I am suppose to be. They come first always. It is true that time heals all wounds though. No it hasn't been quite long enough yet but I am coming to the realization that I am better off and probably much happier without her. I thought I would never say that, but yes, I have now realize she isn't the only woman on the face of this planet and there are a lot of beautiful women out there who appreciate a good man. I miss the times we had together, but I know I could never do it again. It's a shame too. It's a shame when you give so much to someone and not get any respect or someone is always looking for greener grass when they made a commitment to you. Maybe it just wasn't meant to be. Everything happens for a reason huh? As much as I loved her, I feel like a giant weight has been lifted off my shoulder. Why should I give 100% for someone who doesn't appreciate it. I have now just recently begun to realize that and I'll never know the answer. I wasn't perfect, but I tried. I realize I'm still young and have my whole life ahead of me and it can only get better. You live and you learn! I guess I just wanted to say thanks to everyone who gave advice and understands. I still live with the haunting visions everyday, but the past is the past and I can only hope for a better future for me and my kids. Wow this is deep! I should not be drinking anymore tonight and hit the sack.
alphamale Posted February 26, 2005 Posted February 26, 2005 Originally posted by jangle04 Why should I give 100% for someone who doesn't appreciate it. I have now just recently begun to realize that and I'll never know the answer. I am very happy 4 u JANGLE04. But take some hard and fast lessons from this relationship into your next one. Mainly: DON"T GIVE 100% WHEN 70% WILL SUFFICE>
Ladyjane14 Posted February 26, 2005 Posted February 26, 2005 Glad to hear you're doing well Jangle. There might be a few more bumps in the road, so be prepared. Overall though, it looks like you've made it throught the roughest parts.
SummerRae Posted February 26, 2005 Posted February 26, 2005 yes, it does get better. Time heals ALL, if you let it. I know when you're in that place though, sometimes it can seem like it will NEVER get better. You just have to believe. Good luck!
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