star_shooter Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Hi All This girl I like; we've been talking on the phone for awhile. I haven't spoken with her for awhile; I've been away. I'm going to call her on Monday. We've been talking for awhile; she knows I like her; she seems to like talking with me. When I call Monday I'm going to say we haven't spoken and I miss her. and tell her about the last time I saw her. It being great, etc. with romantic stuff in there. Then I'm going to say "I'd still like to take you somewhere" (meeting after work, or lunch, etc.) Is this a good idea? Pros and Cons of this. Thank you All
hasaquestion Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Hi All This girl I like; we've been talking on the phone for awhile. I haven't spoken with her for awhile; I've been away. I'm going to call her on Monday. We've been talking for awhile; she knows I like her; she seems to like talking with me. When I call Monday I'm going to say we haven't spoken and I miss her. and tell her about the last time I saw her. It being great, etc. with romantic stuff in there. Then I'm going to say "I'd still like to take you somewhere" (meeting after work, or lunch, etc.) Is this a good idea? Pros and Cons of this. Thank you All Good lord. Why the f*** do you want to "tell her how you feel?" Is she a professional shrink? Invite her out somewhere to do something fun. If she's interested she'll take you up. And then you can hit on her, show her a good time and SHOW her you're interested. 4
Elle1975 Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 You guys aren't dating yet? It's a hell no... That'd leave me wondering if you rush your feelings with everybody. Just ask her out. No need to splatter your feelings all over her.
DazedandConfused8 Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Hi All This girl I like; we've been talking on the phone for awhile. I haven't spoken with her for awhile; I've been away. I'm going to call her on Monday. We've been talking for awhile; she knows I like her; she seems to like talking with me. When I call Monday I'm going to say we haven't spoken and I miss her. and tell her about the last time I saw her. It being great, etc. with romantic stuff in there. Then I'm going to say "I'd still like to take you somewhere" (meeting after work, or lunch, etc.) Is this a good idea? Pros and Cons of this. Thank you All Why don't you tell her in person? 1
Mrin Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Why not say, "hey, I really enjoy talking with you. We have such great conversations. How about we continue this in person. How does Wednesday sound?" 3
d0nnivain Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 When you ask her on the date she will conclude that you like her. No announcements needed. Don't make one 2
kolleamm Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Asking her out is a great idea, just don't say I really like you or anything like that. It makes it sound like you're looking for approval. 2
preraph Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 ^ yeah or a guarantee. Save all romantic pronouncements for in person. Why? Because if you're not in person, you will never get to reap the rewards of making them, a good evening. And if you ask her and she goes, that's all anyone needs to know for at least a few months. And then by then, you might actually know whether you like her or not.
fred123 Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 ^ yeah or a guarantee. Save all romantic pronouncements for in person. Why? Because if you're not in person, you will never get to reap the rewards of making them, a good evening. And if you ask her and she goes, that's all anyone needs to know for at least a few months. And then by then, you might actually know whether you like her or not. elaborate please
Author star_shooter Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 Okay, would it be alright to tell her I liked seeing her on the Thursday I did, and give her a compliment? Then ask her out? Or should I just talk with her for a little while (2 min or so) then ask her out? 1
todreaminblue Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Okay, would it be alright to tell her I liked seeing her on the Thursday I did, and give her a compliment? Then ask her out? Or should I just talk with her for a little while (2 min or so) then ask her out? i think what you said first sounds fine....lol.....i actually have sympathy for the guy i told over the phone soon after meeting him that i liked him as more than a friend...all in all he handled that particular phone call well, except it was a rejection for me which wasnt fun...but manageable.... my experience dont ask over the phone do it in person..... i would suggest not doing it over the phone tell her you had a nice time thursday and give her that compliment then ask her out on a date....good luck...smilin.....deb
d0nnivain Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Okay, would it be alright to tell her I liked seeing her on the Thursday I did, and give her a compliment? Then ask her out? Or should I just talk with her for a little while (2 min or so) then ask her out? Do all of that. Talk for a while. Compliment her Tell her you enjoyed seeing her. Then ask her out.
Assasda Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 I think you got some good advice from the posters here OP. Use it. I also wouldnt throw out any gratuitous compliments. If something is absolutely striking, and you have to compliment. You should do it. But if you compliment her, then ask her out, it may seem a little contrived. lol I think when women say "Guys, be yourselves". This is one of the instances you should just be yourself
Author star_shooter Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 Okay. Monday I will call her and talk as usual; no compliments or anything; I will flirt subtley as is what I do with her always; just talk as I have been and then I will ask her out. How woukd this be? Thank you All:)
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