Mary3 Posted February 26, 2005 Posted February 26, 2005 I have been seeing this guy about 5 dates now and he is very *shy* . He makes no moves to kiss or hug but if I do.. he looks happy and kisses me back alot ! lol. He seems to have a hard time looking into my eyes for long periods of time...he did admit to being shy... Any advice from shy guys or girls here ?
monkey00 Posted February 26, 2005 Posted February 26, 2005 well, theres really nothing you can do change his shy personality. but what you can probably do is take less initiatives and "give him the chance" to be the aggressor. or suggest things for him to choose. Doing this should give him the confidence boost he needs to be less shy around you. the fact is i think he hasnt had much experience with women in the past, so on a date with you is like taking baby steps, so he's unsure how to go about things.
alphamale Posted February 26, 2005 Posted February 26, 2005 Originally posted by Mary3 Any advice from shy guys or girls here ? yes, i'm an ex-shy guy. you need to take the lead here until he build up his confidence in the relationship. he'll most likely only be shy for first few months.
Hund1976 Posted February 26, 2005 Posted February 26, 2005 Enjoy, he probably will be really happy to be with you. Since he's shy he most likely will never be out at the club trying to score some tail. Plus you don't have to worry about him mauling you too soon. Just take the lead and get what you want.
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