JasonFischer Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 I approached a girl I've been seeing around the rec center for awhile. We sometimes make eye contact, but never spoke to each other. As I was leaving one day, I introduced myself and talked for a bit and said she is welcome to exercise with me sometime if she wanted. It seemed like a pleasant experience but I don't know if it that was creepy. I smiled and maintained eye contact throughout. Thoughts?
MidwestUSA Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 It doesn't sound creepy, unless you were leering at her boobs or something. Go exercise with her!
PegNosePete Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 No not creepy but somewhat beta. If you want to ask her on a date then you should ask her somewhere more date-like, rather than friend-like.
Author JasonFischer Posted August 8, 2014 Author Posted August 8, 2014 No not creepy but somewhat beta. If you want to ask her on a date then you should ask her somewhere more date-like, rather than friend-like. Okay. My initial thinking was that would come off as too strong and if she rejected, there would be a forever awkwardness, and I didn't want to inflict that upon someone. 1
Poppygoodwill Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 What did she do or say? If she's curious, she'll take a while but then one day she'll walk up and start talking to you. If she's not, then she'll just smile from a distance and go about her business. Whatever she does, follow her lead. If she just smiles, then just smile back and leave it at that. 1
Author JasonFischer Posted August 8, 2014 Author Posted August 8, 2014 What did she do or say? If she's curious, she'll take a while but then one day she'll walk up and start talking to you. If she's not, then she'll just smile from a distance and go about her business. Whatever she does, follow her lead. If she just smiles, then just smile back and leave it at that. I haven't seen her yet. She said "I'll probably take you up on that " That's what I was thinking. I will wait for her to act.
Miss Match Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 She said "I'll probably take you up on that " sounds pretty positive. If she does come and exercise with you, you should ask her out properly then.
preraph Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Sounds fine to me. Now she'll either be friendly and come talk to you or she'll maintain her distance with only a polite but standoffishness and you'll know if she's interested or not.
TXGuy Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 If she finds you attractive, it is not creepy at all. If she doesn't find you attractive, it is creepy. There is no way to tell ahead of time. The fact that she said she might take you up on it indicates she was not creeped out.
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