Finally....

[ssd360]

So finally I've managed to find a girl that likes me for me.. so far. We've been on multiple dates everything has gone well. She is sick today but we had something planned she has shown a lot of interest and I assume she is really actually sick. Should I let her be or actually try to make a effort to show her that I care for her. We are dating casually but I would like to make her my girlfriend but don't know how. If someone could help with this thanks. Ive never been in a relationship but I really want to pursue her and be with her. Thanks

[chimpanA-2-chimpanZ]

Do you know what kind of sick she is? I once had stomach flu and the guy I was seeing brought me Saltines and Gatorade in every flavor "because I didn't know which kind you like". It was incredibly endearing. If you don't feel comfortable doing something like that, just send her a nice message letting her know you're thinking of her and that you hope she feels better.

[Assasda]

Maybe call her to check on her.

Ask her if "She is dying over there"

 

See if you can do anything for her.

If she says "No" just tell her that she can call you anytime she wants.

 

YOu just want to let her know that youre there for her basically.

Builds some good rapport too

[ssd360]

First off, congratulations. Always nice to hear of a happy story...so far! If she likes you for you, then it seems to me that the best thing you can do is to continue being you. If she really does like you for you, then being you is all you should really need. Aside from that, the only advice I like to give about pursing a woman is to not pursue her. Show her you care about her by spending time with her, making her a priority, and showing interest in getting to know her as a person. If all goes well, a relationship should just happen naturally from there.

 

I like your advice. Not that the others weren't ok. But i feel as if your advice suites me because I don't want to feel too attached even though i was looking forward to hanging out with her.