thekopistop Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 (edited) First post on here, just looking for some advice really. Me and my gf of around 15 months have lived together since December last year. The relationship has been good, although a couple of trust issues on both sides - due to ex's keeping in contact. We have got over that issue but the last month or so in our flat hasnt been great. I have been a bit moody, making her upset and just generally unwelcome I think. The main reason for this has been my job, it puts me in such a crap mood that when I get home Im just a bit of a moody ****. We have had so much fun with each other but like I said the last month has been a rough ride. On Monday she said she wanted some space away and was going back to her mothers for a bit. She stayed with me Monday night and we had a nice night and we were playful on Tuesday morning. She went to her mothers on Tuesday night and said she will stay until a week on Friday. I said im not going to contact her in any form until she is ready to come back. Its now been a few days no contact with her. She left a note before she left saying she still loves me and she will speak to me soon. I have spoken to her mum who has told me she hasnt taken many clothes and she cant understand why she has gone back. She also took some photos of us that i had printed last week. Anyways, what do I do? Do i wait until next Friday for her or do i contact her sooner? It seems like a very long time considering we are still together :/ Do I let her come back in her own time and respect her decision for wanting space? It just feels like leaving things that long will let us grow apart. Do I believe that if we are meant to be then we will? Or do I make contact sooner and try and get her to come back sooner? I think she will deciding whether or not she wants to be with me and I can visualise her coming back next Friday and breaking up with me. Edited August 8, 2014 by thekopistop
David87 Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 She wants space, then give her space. Don't contact her. 3
Author thekopistop Posted August 8, 2014 Author Posted August 8, 2014 Dont you think nearly two weeks seems like a long time? Considering we live together. Also, I use snapchat quite a bit and the 'my story' part. This is not something i send to her, but everyone can view it and she has been viewing them. Dont think that really means a lot but just thought i would mention it.
David87 Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Dont you think nearly two weeks seems like a long time? Considering we live together. Also, I use snapchat quite a bit and the 'my story' part. This is not something i send to her, but everyone can view it and she has been viewing them. Dont think that really means a lot but just thought i would mention it. I think you should mentally prepare to live without her way more than 2 weeks....just saying.
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