laylay305 Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 so, some of you may be familiar situation from the other thread, but basically i asked this guy who is also a fan of the same team i am to borrow something from him. well, i suggested that we meet over drinks so i could give it back. he obliged and we met up tonight. he was the one to order another drink. and he also paid, even though i offered. we had a good night--conversation flowed well, and we really seemed to get along. all in all, we spent about 2 hours together. he also mentioned that this was the most he's talked to anyone from our supporter group. so when we finally left, we walked to the parking lot together, and i gave him the scarf back. he told me that he had a good time, and i said that i did as well, and we should do it again sometime. and he basically said, "yeah, hopefully there will be more supporter events in the offseason". i know he's shy and i've had to make the moves, but was this pretty much the kiss of death? thanks all.
Assasda Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Unfortunately it sounds like it. At the end there, it sounds like he was just being friendly Hopefully you didnt come off as too "friendly" OP Did you bat your eyes a little?
Author laylay305 Posted August 8, 2014 Author Posted August 8, 2014 i did. i flirted with him. telling him his profile picture looks like a modeling picture and whatnot. things seemed to be going really well, that's why the end threw me for a loop. especially as he was the one that wanted to stay for another drink. and he was the one that paid, even though i offered.
Assasda Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 i did. i flirted with him. telling him his profile picture looks like a modeling picture and whatnot. things seemed to be going really well, that's why the end threw me for a loop. especially as he was the one that wanted to stay for another drink. and he was the one that paid, even though i offered. His loss OP. He could be involved with someone. Maybe he'll come to his senses down the line. A lot of other guys out there
starrynightz45 Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 There's a possibility here that he's just really that shy and his response at the end was just a clumsy, awkward response that he didn't really think through and that he wasn't really trying to imply anything. This is a possibility. He's shy, and you got him to go out on the pretext of returning his stuff. Maybe he's not even 100% sure if you thought it was a "date" or not. He could be confused, and so his response was something "safe." It's also very possible that he's just not interested for whatever reason. I would say, from here on out, you continue to be friendly and approachable. If he's into you, he'll slowly come around. Otherwise, I'd say move on.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 He doesn't sound interested, OP. Sorry. I think he was viewing this a friendly meet-up.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 i did. i flirted with him. telling him his profile picture looks like a modeling picture and whatnot. things seemed to be going really well, that's why the end threw me for a loop. especially as he was the one that wanted to stay for another drink. and he was the one that paid, even though i offered. I wouldn't read into that as romantic interest. A lot of guys will pay even it's not a date; they view it as polite. Staying for another drink could really just mean he wanted another drink - plain and simple. You tried OP, so kudos to you for that. He just didn't take the bait. 1
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