Mrblonde89 Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Ok so a beautiful girl messages me on OkCupid . She like guys with long hair ( which I have ) we both like heavy metal , She thinks I'm cute and wants to eventually meet up , i have her number . my only question is how do I not screw this up ?
kolleamm Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 If it fails with her, you can always try meeting people in real life. That being said whether it will work or not is not always in your hands. Good luck and don't over think it
Author Mrblonde89 Posted August 8, 2014 Author Posted August 8, 2014 I was doing that . But I happened to check my e-mail and saw I had a message on said site so I checked it out . I saw that a cute girl had messaged me and we just started talking
Author Mrblonde89 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 Well my luck being me she now barley talks to me. Awesome, **** is always going to suck for me. I'll never find anyone again
Author Mrblonde89 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 She wait at least a half hour to reply if not longer, I wish she never would have acted interested
Author Mrblonde89 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 Should I just tell her if she doesn't want to talk to just forget about me
Scales Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 every 30 minutes is long? If you send her that if shes not going to talk to just forget about, you are writing your own death note. Don't be so desperate. If you play all your cards you'll have nothing left.
Author Mrblonde89 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 From what I know, if someone wants to talk to you they don't wait 30 minutes plus to reply to a text. Once in a while sure but every time you text them ? Don't sound like their interested in taking to you .
Eivuwan Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Eh, if you like her, just ask her out on a date. All this texting stuff leads to nowhere.
Thegreatestthing Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Look I messaged this guy on a dating site I thought he was cute anyway he replied and I never replied because I think he's too good for me.or because I just don't know what to say,don't be negative write to her again she was obviously interested since she wrote to you.
Author Mrblonde89 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 She gave me her number we were texting the last 2 days she said i was cute and wanted to meet up . Maybe I came on to strong by texting her too much . i didn't ask anything rude or anything . The last thing i said was do you want to play a game to get to know each other better , maybe she took that sexually I don't know. It wasn't supposed to sound sexual
Eivuwan Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 She gave me her number we were texting the last 2 days she said i was cute and wanted to meet up . Maybe I came on to strong by texting her too much . i didn't ask anything rude or anything . The last thing i said was do you want to play a game to get to know each other better , maybe she took that sexually I don't know. It wasn't supposed to sound sexual So she wanted to meetup and you just kept texting her? Why not set up plans for a date? 1
Author Mrblonde89 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 We had only been talking 2 days we met online I didn't want to come off as a possible murderer
Author Mrblonde89 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 I don't think it's going to matter it's been several hors since I texted her and never got a reply
Eivuwan Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 We had only been talking 2 days we met online I didn't want to come off as a possible murderer Dude, you're over thinking this. SHE suggested meeting up. You ignored it so she lost interest. Next time you like someone and they like you, just go for it. 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 We had only been talking 2 days we met online I didn't want to come off as a possible murderer I don't get how you could've come across as a possible murderer when she's the one who suggested meeting up? I know when I was online dating I hated messing about texting and messaging back and forth endlessly with no real progress. I was always wary of guys who seemed to avoid meeting up. 9/10 they were either overweight (using older or stolen profile pics), in a relationship and/or just looking for a 'text buddy'. No thanks. I'm not here for that.
Thegreatestthing Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 I wouldn't meet up with a guy after only talking to him for two days I need longer than that,she may still reply op.just send her a little mesage sometimes if they message me a second time I answer,
Author Mrblonde89 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 I suggested meeting up if it matters
preraph Posted August 9, 2014 Posted August 9, 2014 Give her your phone number. She will either use it or not. Texting too much and freaking about when they don't text back soon is screwing up more potential relationships than anything I've seen in my lifetime except aids and herpes. Are you looking for a girl who has nothing else to do but text? Is that it? Do you not want a girl with a job or in school or who occasionally goes and does things with friends and doesn't ignore them by texting the whole time? Because that's all you're going to get if you make texting back quickly and often the yardstick.
Author Mrblonde89 Posted August 9, 2014 Author Posted August 9, 2014 She has my number. She doesn't have a job but is a stay at home mom. I figured since she acted like she was interested in me that maybe **** would work out for me but guess not. I already deleted her number since I see that this clearly isn't going anywhere.
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