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It's been about 4 months since she broke up with me and is currently in another relationship, about two months ago she began to start to send me text messages saying she misses me and loves me, I ignored them and asked her nicely to stop sending those, she did. Then a couple weeks after that she began questioning my love for her I also ignored her and she insisted on asking so I told her that it didn't matter if I did or not. She replied with "whatever" then she stopped contacting me again.

 

Recently about two days ago she sent a you tube link to song about still loving their Ex and missing them, then yesterday she sent me a goodnight text at 1:00 a.m. she knows I get up at 5:00 a.m. my question is why is she doing this and what could she be up to? She does have a boyfriend and really to me it would be better if she waited until she is single for her to tell me those things, she had told me before that she is happy and in love, and to leave her alone and I did. Now she began doing this

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She's showing you her true colors: she has very little character.

 

She made a decision to end your relationship. Now she's changing her mind & doing it in the worst possible way, behind her new guy's back.

 

If you are seriously considering reconciling with her think about how she's treating the new guy & remember she already broke your relationship once. What's to stop her from doing it again, since she obviously places so little value on her BFs?

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Who knows what her intentions are?

 

If I had to guess it's one of 3 things possibly a combination of the 3.

 

1. She is texting you when her new boy toy is not around. She is likely lonely in those moments OR having anxiety about her new relationship. Thus you are a nice option in her mind.

 

2. She can't stand the fact that you are not texting her. Despite the fact that she dumped you.. She can no longer have you. Thus she wants you.. It's really a game.

 

3. She does miss you and is having second thoughts about her choice. Why is she still with the other guy? Simple it's a back up plan. She does not want to burn that bridge when she is unsure of your intentions.

 

I personally feel that it is more then likely 1 or 2.

 

If she really loves you and really wanted to get back with you she would do a hell of a lot more then text. She also would just ditch the current boy friend. I mean think about it.. When you have screwed up in a relationship or dumped someone and decided you wanted them back.. You don't just text. I know i don't.

 

As others have said this woman is showing you her true colors. I'd move on. The only way I personally would even consider a second chance is if the woman went out of her way to show me she wants me. Even still I'd be unsure and it would be on MY terms.

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