Wisecrack Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 You've built the rapport. She knows you're interested in her. She replies fleetingly throughout the day but once night hits, she will reply to you within 10min. I want to try mix it up a bit by calling; maybe using an excuse such as asking her for help with some study I am doing at the moment (we are in the same degree). How do girls find guys whom call instead of messaging? In this day and age, all I hear about interactions between sexes is texting. Particularly at my age of the 20s. See here, I'm a pretty confident guy so I'm not fussed either way. Thoughts?
fred123 Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 just because she knows ur interested doesnt mean ur not in the fri3ndzone! be wary. also she know has the power to play u. never tell them or show them ur interested until they do
Giggle Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 I love chatting. I've been asked a few times if they could call the initial time. Not calling to me indicates a lack of actual interest in my person. There is so much more connection with actual voice conversations. The power she has? Ugh.
Smilecharmer Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Rejection shouldn't deter you anyway, if it does, you will turn away from a million things in life because rejection happens to everyone, even hunks and geniuses. From my observations, twenty year olds still talk on the phone if they like the person romantically. 2
Assasda Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 You should call, dont think about what other guys are doing
d0nnivain Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 I'm a woman not a girl but I prefer grown men who can carry on a phone conversation rather than immature boys who want to try to build a rapport via text 2
Els Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 It's sweet as long as you don't do it excessively, and as long as you're able to bow out graciously if she happens to be too busy to chat at the moment.
phineas Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 call her up, ask her out. it really isn't that hard.
xxmusical Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 To me, calling shows that the guy is truly interested in the girl. And talking on the phone is definitely more intimate/personal than plain ol' texting. So call her. 2
FitChick Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Tell her you need to hear the sound of her voice. 2
HappyLove Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 I hate texting romantically. It's like you're dating your phone. 1
pepsimax Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Things sound so different over the phone than texting. I was offended by a guy friend that text me...i decided to call him and hearing his tone and the way he said it over the phone sounded so different and not cold and I understood he didn't want to hurt me. Anyway, call her! Good luck
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