karoline9 Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 I know some people tell that there is no such thing as ex-friend, but personally I believe they exist (sorry, if you do not agree with me) I got a friend 3 years ago and we were very closed. Both of us get in the same church, even until now. It has changed from 3 years ago when he decided to believe other people than my advices. I believe he hate me so much now, even his girlfriend hates me, too. What do you think I should do?
Ronni_W Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 karoline, Nothing...do nothing as far as he is concerned. If you want to, just be cordial if you see him at church...like only nod in his direction, or just say 'hi' if he says hi. Nothing more than that. Just because he chose different advice than you gave him doesn't mean that he didn't also value your opinion...he gets to choose for himself what HE thinks will be in his own best interest to achieve his particular goals. And just because you're not as close anymore doesn't mean that he "hates" you...there's a little too much drama going on in your head, perhaps? He has a girlfriend and if they decided/agreed to limit or stop friendships with opposite-gender people, then that is within their power, right and authority. It doesn't mean that they "hate" anybody or everybody else.
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