johndail Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 Just started hanging out again with my ex lately. We broke up over a year ago due to us towards the end arguing all the time. We dated for about 8 months. Here's the catch though. Every time we talk it is initiated by me...never once received a text from her. She does always respond and sometime will carry on a conversation and sometime she will be short. I will text her seeing if she wants to hang out and she says yes or if she is busy she will try to make up a new time. We will hang out by yourself or with her friends or mine but it is always set up by me. One thing though is one night several days ago after hanging out she texted me about a country song about building a house in the country and she asked me if I could give that to her but she was drunk. I just need to know what you guys think. If I'm wasting my time or if there is some chance of getting back together. Need to know what to do.
ThorntonMelon Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 Shoot straight. Tell her that you would like to start seeing her again. (don't get too clingy about it - you're starting over)
LifeGoesOnMan Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 My advice would be to fall back. not wayyyy back but put a little distance between you & her and see how she responds. Don't always be the first to initiate or try to make plans See how interested she really is. If she cares she will notice. 2
Simon Phoenix Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 Yeah, I would stop initiating, let her lead. If she doesn't lead, there's your answer. 2
Author johndail Posted August 7, 2014 Author Posted August 7, 2014 Alright I understand that kinda figured that is what I should do. My only question is if I don't ever get anything back from here do I just leave it alone forever and move on. I'm just torn between what I should do and shouldn't do
organizedchaos Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 Alright I understand that kinda figured that is what I should do. My only question is if I don't ever get anything back from here do I just leave it alone forever and move on. I'm just torn between what I should do and shouldn't do If she is interested, she'll initiate. If she doesn't, she's just placating you right now. She could be bored, lonely, likes the attention. Is that what you want?
Zahara Posted August 8, 2014 Posted August 8, 2014 My only question is if I don't ever get anything back from here do I just leave it alone forever and move on. You answered your own question.
Amelie1980 Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 This is interesting. I am at the if I text ex he will reply stage. trying to move it forward......
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