DazedandConfused8 Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 1) One time he went out with a friend of his and told me he'd be back home around 1-2 am. I stayed up watching tv but 2am passed and he was still out. I texted him to ask when he's coming home but got no answer. After a while I fell asleep but woke up around 4am. He was still not home so I called him but he didn't answer. At that point I was really mad. I woke up the next morning around 8am and still no sign of my boyfriend, now I was getting worried actually. I decided to call him around 10 am and he did pick up and said he was on his way. When he came home I told him I was mad cause he didn't even tell me he wasn't coming home. Instead of apologising he then got mad at me because I was so upset and said something like "I cant be in a relationship with someone if I cant even go out with a friend" He totally didn't understand that that wasn't my problem but that I was so upset cause he was gone all night without telling me. We made up after a few hours. Well? He missed his bedtime by 9 hours. Where was he!? 2) One time I asked him if he wanted to come sleep over at my place and stay for the week cause my parents were on vacation and he doesn't like staying over when my parents are home (he's 28 and I'm 21 btw) He said he won't stay for the entire week but maybe one night. I told him I was disappointed that he would only wanna stay for one night and then he got mad at me and said that I am making him feel bad for not giving me more and that he doesn't need that kinda treatment in his life. Those were his exact words. We made up again but he didn't end up coming over at all. Going from dating to living together for a week can be intimidating. Why was it so important for you that he spend the entire week living with you? 3) Last night he asked me to come visit him (we are currently in a long distance relationship cause he's in the military) and when I told him I found a cheap flight for 750 bucks he said I shouldn't come visit and that I should buy a car instead. That actually really hurt my feelings so I told him and again he got pissed off at me and started this huge fight. By a $750 car to come visit you? Or put the $750 towards buying a car so you'd have a better method of transportation?
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