emotionsmessmeup Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 oh i texted my friends with benefits yesterday... first i called and asked if i cud meet him.he said he was busy..and we shud talk on the phone.. he said i sounded upset..i just didnt feel comfortable talking on the phone and he insisted but i couldnt... i called him back n left a voice mail..saying ok fine just call me..but he didnt so later at night i texted him and said.. i find it really inapproritate when u keep telling me that i shud date others. I guess u do ti coz u think i am interested in u but i am not.. i dont wanna date anyone right now..i like u but dont like u like that.. guess i just wanna do u..i didnt ask u to give a name to whatever is going on coz i dont want 1. but i find it disrespectful when u try to do me and then be like oh u shud date others n thts all. what do y'all think he is gonan do? he has called/been online since..
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 25, 2005 Author Posted February 25, 2005 I mean has NOT CALLED since
EC Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 If you dont want anything with him and don't care then why does the fact that he hasnt called upset you so much. If it's nothing, you don't want anything, then why are you so stressed about it??
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 25, 2005 Author Posted February 25, 2005 not stressed or upset.. just wondering if this is the end of it.. wondering if i get to do him or not
Barby Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 Originally posted by EtErNaLlYCoNfUsEd If you dont want anything with him and don't care then why does the fact that he hasnt called upset you so much. If it's nothing, you don't want anything, then why are you so stressed about it?? Exactly! Seems to me that him telling you to date other people really bothers you because you are sleeping with him and seems like you probably want more from him but don't want to admit it since in fact he's telling you that he doesn't want to be with you, instead he's telling you that you should date other people! If you didn't like him or want to be with him, him telling you to date other people wouldn't affect you in the least bit, and when he doesn't call...you'd be like "oh well" and not give it a second thought!
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 25, 2005 Author Posted February 25, 2005 see..even if i dont feel anything..LS makes me feel like I do.. Can somebody give em the benefit for doubt?
iceisles Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 Originally posted by emotionsmessmeup see..even if i dont feel anything..LS makes me feel like I do.. Can somebody give em the benefit for doubt? What does your heart tell you? The mind can be confused easily, but the heart is usually a consistent barometer. And FYI, it's "the benefit of the doubt".
krbshappy71 Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 Originally posted by iceisles What does your heart tell you? The mind can be confused easily, but the heart is usually a consistent barometer. And FYI, it's "the benefit of the doubt". After that initial posting FULL OF ERRORS you are giving her a correction on that one statement? This poor girl needs to focus on her education, not where she is going to get sex next.....this is SO SAD! I am hoping she is just writing in that fashion because she thinks it is cute....ughh.... Please consider focusing on improving other areas of your life instead of whether or not your booty call is going to call again.
iceisles Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 Originally posted by krbshappy71 After that initial posting FULL OF ERRORS you are giving her a correction on that one statement? This poor girl needs to focus on her education, not where she is going to get sex next.....this is SO SAD! I am hoping she is just writing in that fashion because she thinks it is cute....ughh.... Please consider focusing on improving other areas of your life instead of whether or not your booty call is going to call again. Yeah, emotions - communication is so important. It says a lot about you as a person. I'm not saying it has any relevance to your situation per se`, but some people will paint you with a broad stroke after the first impression you give them.
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted February 25, 2005 Author Posted February 25, 2005 Education... I had a masters degree before I was 22... and no i dont study fashion. or write in fashion.... Yup I need to focus on other areas like I am currently doing ---- 1) work 2) gym 3) friends but then thats wht LS is for isnt it..when u are in doubt and dont know where else to go..
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