Humphrey 101 Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 There are, only certain women I will go out with. Most women, who I encounter are gold diggers, immature and don’t have high quality that benefits my interests. I would date some women who are interesting; and when I go out with them I usually don’t like what I see but (as far as I’m concerned there are several things that turn me off). When I breakup with someone or someone breaks up with me I get crushed but if it happened the second time I don’t feel the crush anymore. However I usually contact them in order to get a reaction out of them. If their reaction is positive’ it means there is “no conflict of interests”. If there’s a negative response it means they hold a grudge against me. And they usually tell me never to contact them again. I tell them “suit themselves” because I don’t waste my time with negative people etc. I want to find someone who inspires me and makes me feel good and who isn’t a low value. I want to maintain my confidence and my self-respect. I don’t want to get glued onto someone who either blew me off or doesn’t have a high value of interests in me. 1
Glinda.Good Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 I think you can simplify and just look for a girl who you like a lot, who is fun for you to spend time with, and who feels the same about you. You may have a few dead ends on your way to finding that, we all do. All of this talk of "value" is kind of out of place, I think. 4
MoreCoffee Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Where do I stand with women? I sit, usually outside on the sidewalk in the rain. 1
readynow Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Maybe you should first ask if you (yourself) are 'high-value' and if 'high-value' women would want to spend time with you. 1
leavesonautumn Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 I want to find someone who inspires me and makes me feel good and who isn’t a low value. I want to maintain my confidence and my self-respect. I don’t want to get glued onto someone who either blew me off or doesn’t have a high value of interests in me. I think that generally this is what everyone is looking for. Like Glinda said, spend time with people who make you happy and that you have fun with. Also, avoid being picky or only dating people who fit into a very specific "type". You might be missing out on something great! 1
RonaldS Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 (edited) When I stand with women, typically it is behind them. Every once in awhile facing them. But honestly, most of the time it's lying down. Less calf strain. Edited August 6, 2014 by RonaldS 3
I am Bud Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Dear Humphrey 101 From what you have described above you go for the well dressed, attractive young woman who unfortunately happens to enjoy a generous proportion of someone elses income. If you happen to encounter them on a consistent basis then it's a pattern that you developed within you and that you must break in order to find someone of worth. Whilst it's good to set standards, you have to realise that nobody is perfect and that being inspired by someone and them making you feel good are just temporary feelings and emotions that don't last. If you are depending on someone else for happiness then you are setting yourself up for failure because human emotions are like the tide, they either ebb high or low. Develop the qualities that you search for in others within you and make yourself a happy person and then see the type of women that you will attract. When you are happy within yourself then you will have more energy and love to share with others and by giving you will receive. All the best - Bud.
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