Livetolearn Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Hi It's been about 4 months since we broke up. She's the one who broke up with me but it was pretty mutual. We met up a few times as friends since then, but a little over a month ago I decided to end the friendship and I have not contacted her since. Today is her birthday and I don't know if I should send her a text? I feel incredibly guilty about ignoring her even though she's the one that left me. Every time I go out and have fun, or go on dates etc, when I get home I feel guilty for having fun and ignoring her. Not sure what to do... Thanks for any help.
gamman Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 You're doing fine. Do not contact her. Keep it up!
zen2475 Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 I agree. Don't contact her. You owe her nothing. Don't feel guilty.
Moonborn Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Hi Today is her birthday and I don't know if I should send her a text? Her birthday is just another ordinary day. What should be so special about it? You are no longer a couple.
LifeGoesOnMan Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Hi It's been about 4 months since we broke up. She's the one who broke up with me but it was pretty mutual. We met up a few times as friends since then, but a little over a month ago I decided to end the friendship and I have not contacted her since. Today is her birthday and I don't know if I should send her a text? I feel incredibly guilty about ignoring her even though she's the one that left me. Every time I go out and have fun, or go on dates etc, when I get home I feel guilty for having fun and ignoring her. Not sure what to do... Thanks for any help. do not text her. DO NOT TEXT HER don't text her. unless you're over her, if you're over her, go ahead, no problem. but you're not over her since you're here, posting about it. don't do it man!
jackslife Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 When should you text your ex? When you no longer think about her. When you can't remember what date her birthday is. When you no longer want to contact her. When you laugh at the thought of contacting her and shake your head at such s silly thought... Only then... But if I can only text her under those circumstances (I hear cry), that means I wouldn't contact her at all... Exactly! 1
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