johnny99 Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Long story short my girlfriend broke up with me, and got with someone else shortly after our breakup, she then began to tell me things behind his back like I miss you, I still love you and sending me links to love songs and she even tried to go behind his back and hang out with me and sleep over my house, we all know where that scenario goes, we were together for 3 years..I'm wondering if she was actually worth it in then end to do stuff like that while in a relationship or did she get into a new relationship too fast and is not ready for another and is looking for a way out?
newmoon Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Long story short my girlfriend broke up with me, and got with someone else shortly after our breakup, she then began to tell me things behind his back like I miss you, I still love you and sending me links to love songs and she even tried to go behind his back and hang out with me and sleep over my house, we all know where that scenario goes, we were together for 3 years..I'm wondering if she was actually worth it in then end to do stuff like that while in a relationship or did she get into a new relationship too fast and is not ready for another and is looking for a way out? ...did she get into a new relationship too fast and is not ready for another and is looking for a way out.. i think this is what happened. she wanted out, got out, and the new guy wasn't *quite* like you and she was missing some of your qualities and etc. but as soon as she finds someone else she'll be gone again imo. she's unhappy, looking for something else, and until she finds a better connection she's willing to hang around with you because it's familiar and better than the unknown.
Assasda Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Why do you need to be her therapist. She already left you. -As far as I'm concern, I'd be open to have physical relations with someone like that. -As far as something serious, nah... look for someone else
Dork Vader Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Who knows what all is going on? All any of us can do is speculate. That speculation is going to do you no good. She could just be texting when this guy is not around and she is lonely. She could be finding out this guy isn't everything she thought he was. She could be missing certain parts of your past relationship. God knows what it is.. You know your relationship and you know the details of what is going on here. We do not.
Gaeta Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Long story short my girlfriend broke up with me, and got with someone else shortly after our breakup, she then began to tell me things behind his back like I miss you, I still love you and sending me links to love songs and she even tried to go behind his back and hang out with me and sleep over my house, we all know where that scenario goes, we were together for 3 years..I'm wondering if she was actually worth it in then end to do stuff like that while in a relationship or did she get into a new relationship too fast and is not ready for another and is looking for a way out? She has just proven to you that she is capable of cheating. Chances are she was cheating on you with this guy before she broke up with you.
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