axle_boy Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 Have a question for everyone. Remember back when you had your first love. Those feelings for him/her were intense, awesome and the only thing you could think of was them. And when you lost them it really hurt. Well, my question is. What was your relationship like after that first one. Did you have those feelings ever agian or were they always of a lesser degree. Why I ask this is that my last few girlfriends have always been a good feeling but never like the first and I just wan't to know if others feel the same way.
EC Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 It hurts and I don't think you will ever love again like you loved your first love because it was brand new, un tainted, you had never felt those things before so it was amazing. But the older you get the more you learn that it probably wasn't real love. My first relationships after my first love weren't nearly as great as him but i learned a lot about guys and relationships and then I met my current bf. I felt all those feelings again and fell in love. You can love after your first love.
Author axle_boy Posted February 25, 2005 Author Posted February 25, 2005 I did love after my first love but it was not the same. My last girlfriend was the best two and half years I ever had and I was her "first love". I did love her but it was a more deep and understanding love for her than just one based on passion or romance. Is that similar to the feelings that you have to your latest boyfirnd.
EC Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 I did love her but it was a more deep and understanding love for her than just one based on passion or romance. Is that similar to the feelings that you have to your latest boyfriend. Yeah it's definitely deeper and more patient and more understanding. I love it though I feel as If I am truly loving for the first time.
Scarlett_girl Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 ever since my first love..nothing has been the same..the passion and intensity in my other relationships have never equaled that of my first love..maybe it's cuz we were both musicians who are known to be emotional!
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