Ashley S Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 So hopefully everyone knows what I am talking about. Well do you remember when I said that Kevin said to my mom "You shouldn't put up that picture cause she's going to have creepy guys that hit her up now"? Well the pic my mother put up on her Facebook is a pic that was taken by my friend Andrew. Andrew is very weird though so I kept my distance from him. He was talking to me though, and I said "Oh my mom put up that pic you took of me" All of a sudden Andrew befriends my mom on Facebook and my dad, he created a Facebook just to do this. He then writes on my mom's wall saying this "Hi Lisa! Thank you for the add! I'm Andrew. By the way I take photo credit for that picture of Ashley lol!" Then him and my mom were conversing and then he says he wants to meet my mom and dad and have all of us do something. Ok...I am not dating him! I don't know why he's acting like a psycho. But what I am afraid of now, is that Kevin is thinking it's either 1. A fake profile 2. I am setting Andrew up to this. And it's neither. I noticed Kevin is flaunting his girlfriend more on Facebook, ever since Andrew and my mom were conversing with each other about my picture, and me, etc. I just don't want him to have any satisfaction thinking that I am jealous and I did one of the things I listed above, when in all reality my friend or whatever Andrew is nuts. I am really mad that Andrew did that, cause I am afraid that Kevin thinks "Haha I got to her, she's setting this guy up to make it look like he's dating her". Any thoughts? What would you get from it if you were Kevin? Would you think it's all coincidence? Or would you think I set Andrew up to do that? Or would you think it's all fake? Thanks.
preraph Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 You need to rein your mom in and then you need to stop giving that guy mixed signals and tell him sorry for any misunderstanding but that you're upset the picture is up and are not about to pull him into your family. 1
Author Ashley S Posted August 5, 2014 Author Posted August 5, 2014 You need to rein your mom in and then you need to stop giving that guy mixed signals and tell him sorry for any misunderstanding but that you're upset the picture is up and are not about to pull him into your family. I'm not giving Andrew any mixed signals. I don't really talk to him, I picked up the phone cause he was blowing up my phone and I mentioned that my mom posted the pic he took of me. Then out of nowhere he creates a Facebook and befriends my mom and dad, and he starts saying how he took the photo, and he wants to meet my mom and dad etc. I just don't want Kevin thinking either he's fake or I set Andrew up to do this. I just don't want Kevin thinking "Haha I got her! She's jealous!" Andrew is just crazy there is no mixed signaling with him. I just wanted to know what people think from Kevin's point of view, like what would you think from Kevin's point of view? Thank you.
2sunny Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 I'm not giving Andrew any mixed signals. I don't really talk to him, I picked up the phone cause he was blowing up my phone and I mentioned that my mom posted the pic he took of me. Then out of nowhere he creates a Facebook and befriends my mom and dad, and he starts saying how he took the photo, and he wants to meet my mom and dad etc. I just don't want Kevin thinking either he's fake or I set Andrew up to do this. I just don't want Kevin thinking "Haha I got her! She's jealous!" Andrew is just crazy there is no mixed signaling with him. I just wanted to know what people think from Kevin's point of view, like what would you think from Kevin's point of view? Thank you. Why hasn't your Mom blocked him? File a restraining order against him if you need to. Shut down all the drama!
Author Ashley S Posted August 5, 2014 Author Posted August 5, 2014 Why hasn't your Mom blocked him? File a restraining order against him if you need to. Shut down all the drama! She doesn't know about him, I am going to have her remove him. But I hope I am not confusing anyone. Kevin is the guy I have been talking about. The one with a "new girlfriend" and Andrew is just another friend of mine, but I just don't like how Andrew is talking about my picture, and talking about meeting my dad and my mom, and he created a Facebook out of nowhere, and I just hope Kevin doesn't think it's a fake profile, or that I am setting Andrew up to this, to get to Kevin, cause I noticed Kevin is starting to mention his girlfriend more now. Cause Kevin made that point that "creepy dudes are going to hit me up" And all of a sudden Andrew is talking about my pic, and acting like I am dating him basically, and I just am asking if you saw this from Kevin's point of view, what would you do? What would you think if you were Kevin? Would you think it's legit? Or would you think I am setting up my friend to do this? Thank you.
2sunny Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 I think you are making drama out of nothing. Shut it down so you can quit overthinking it.
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