raider09 Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 I decided to ask this girl out i have been interested in her for sometime now. i got her number and i decided to text her to set up the date. However i haven't received a response. should i messenger her again?
Assasda Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 No, dont message her again. She got your message Wait about a day or 2 then call her. 1
slizl Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 I would text again after waiting two full days. If you do not get a responce to the second text, go NC. 1
SummerLuvR Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 No, dont message her again. She got your message Wait about a day or 2 then call her. I agree with this post. Text messages aren't always 100% reliable, but she probably did get it. I really think it would be nicer to get a call for a date.
rester Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Sometimes a text is okay but it's kinda weak and a phone call shows a lot more confidence. Give it a day or two and call her up.
d0nnivain Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Aaaaaauuuugghhhhhhh!!!!! Do not text to set up a date. Call. Do not message her again. At best she thinks you are immature. She may be annoyed that you couldn't bother to call her. As rester suggested, wait a day or two then call her. 1
Author raider09 Posted August 6, 2014 Author Posted August 6, 2014 i messaged her sorted of late around 8pm. I received I message from her around 11 am next day. I messaged her an hour later and i received a response later on in the day. interest is there she's just playing hard to get.
ramboparrot Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 This is why I stick to facebook messages so I at least know if she's seen it. Preferably I'd rather ask her out in person but the girl I asked out agrees in person but tells me to message her the details anyway.
Author raider09 Posted August 6, 2014 Author Posted August 6, 2014 i asked her out in person i just need to go about setting up the date.
d0nnivain Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Calling is still better. You can send a quick confirming text the day of.
Assasda Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 i asked her out in person i just need to go about setting up the date. Ok, you tell her to meet you at _______ place at ______ time. Not rocket science bro. Thats it 1
DazedandConfused8 Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 I decided to ask this girl out i have been interested in her for sometime now. i got her number and i decided to text her to set up the date. However i haven't received a response. should i messenger her again? What did the text say?
rewl Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 i messaged her sorted of late around 8pm. I received I message from her around 11 am next day. I messaged her an hour later and i received a response later on in the day. interest is there she's just playing hard to get. You texted her at 8PM and she waited until 11AM next day to reply....just drop her. Although you made a number of mistakes, it's better to call. And if you're going to text, then add "let me know today if you're interested". She would have no choice but to reply that same night.
preraph Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 When you first asked her out, it should have been by phone, and you should have already figured out the date and not just said, Hey want to go out? But said "Hey, do you want to go to Spimoni's with me Friday?" Or whatever it is.
Dork Vader Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 Yeah and don't invite her out tomorrow night. Go 2-3 days out. Even if you don't have a life and nothing going on. Say how about dinner and bowling Friday night.. Or Dinner and drinks Friday night sound good? Word it your own way.
Author raider09 Posted August 7, 2014 Author Posted August 7, 2014 i messaged her 12 noon "how is your day going so far ". I received a reply at 11pm "very busy how was your day?" and i replied the following day around 11am. i didn't ask her a question just a response where should i go from here?
Assasda Posted August 7, 2014 Posted August 7, 2014 hahaha congratulations on sending the weakest, neediest text of all. "How are you?" texts are so needy. Dont do it again, All it says is "I want to here from you. put I have nothing to say" where you go from here? Call her next time and set up a time to go out
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