chardayze Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 Have been broken up with ex for 2months now and went NC for a good 2 weeks and was feeling okay until I see that he unfollowed me on instagram. I know it may not seem like a big deal but it really got to me and then i started checking his page and broke NC. I saw he had followed all these people who he knows would bother me and it did. I stupidly ended up going to his house and asking to talk and I told him how hard everything has been and it made it worse because he did that etc. He said he was sorry and that he said he had done it to try and get me to contact him but he still says he cant be with me at the moment. I just feel so stupid and annoyed that i reacted and that I broke NC. I do not want any bitterness between us, but i have a question for you. Do you think I should completely remove him off all social media (I unfollowed him already on facebook so that i can never see anything to do with him). Or do you think I should remain friends on facebook so that he can see that I can have a happy life without him and show him what he's missing?
PegNosePete Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 You need to learn how to do NC properly. If you were doing it right then you would never have even noticed that he has unfollowed you. Why do you want him to see what he's missing? Delete, unfriend, unfollow, and BLOCK on all social media sites.
zen2475 Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 Continuing to follow your ex on any social media site will only prolong your pain and make it take that much longer to heal. Take it from the voice of experience, it's best just to block them on everything.
Feelbettersoon Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 This happened to me today. Two weeks since he BU with me after two years. Iv kept my instagram going , today and yesterday he started liking my close friends photos in bulk, yet he doesn't like mine. He doesn't even know her so I can't understand why he would do this? To get to me? I text him nearly a week ago to talk but no reply, now he starts liking my friends things.... I just don't get it!
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