Wisecrack Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 From the get go I made my interest to her clear. She was flattered but not interested so we continued to keep in touch. At a party one night, we got really cosy but did not 'hook up'. My friends blamed it on me for not going for it as she spent the night in my embrace but dug her head into my chest and looked away shyly. Class has started again and it's like we've continued on from where we stopped. First day after I've said hi to everyone, I go join her and wrap my arm around her shoulders as she curls up to me and says 'good, you can keep me warm'. So I do it as we chat to others before class. I later bump into a friend in line who is chatting to the said girl and start chatting to him as she spends the time all doe eyed staring at me. The next lecture, with her friends sitting at the back, she walks and sits in the spare seat behind me and we spend the afternoon chatting together; flirting about the ball we are going to together (along with our group of friends). Yet I've noticed I'm always the one who has to initiate messaging her. When I do we have good conversations all day - none of the one word stuff that would suggest she was not interested. But conversations will end with either me stopping it or her letting the conversation finish. The thing is, I'm going through a period where I'm focused on improving myself - gym, sports and bringing my grades up etc so obviously, woman are the last thing on my mind. I've come back to the semester a different person having lost a lot of weight, leaner, better dress sense, being more composed and driven. The ironic thing is this is all from the girl who made me realise what I was doing with my life when she turned me down. I look back and not in pity or self loathing do see that if I was a chick, I don't think I would even date myself. And guess what, now she has me hooked again. How do you guys see the situation? What should I do?
Assasda Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 I dont understand the questoion. I dont know what the problem is or what you want. Clarify
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