FrostBlaze Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 We parted ways, she wanted to be just friends, i told her no. She tried to talk to me and i repeated my statement and clearly told her to leave me alone. 1 week of NC later she messages me on FB with some of her personal problems, whining. "oh look on how i don't get along with my mom blabla". Yeye, probably shouldn't have answered in the first place. I ask her, "why is it that you it important to tell me about this?? Noone else to listen to your probs? Besides i told you to not speak to me." This is when she activates her witts and goes on the offensive. "oh you a wiseguy now? you bore me" etc stuff like that. I let her mumbble and gave a lil bye when she finished. So really, why is she still insisting? Lack of respect. Oh and, i answer her because i actually like to argue, it's hard for me not to want to fight it out with her lol weird.
Author FrostBlaze Posted August 6, 2014 Author Posted August 6, 2014 Le bump, since this is the only topic on here with no replies, depressing xD.
MidwestUSA Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Restrain your self from replying. She's just looking for pity, and getting a kick out of any response she gets from you. No need to understand it, just disengage.
writergal Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Sounds like a case of Le Breadcrumbs to me, OP. I agree with MidwestUSA that your ex contacted you b/c she doesn't want to let go of you. The breadcrumb she gave you was the excuse to contact you: about her fight with her mom. Probably best to ignore her. Block her FB and all social media so she can't contact you again. I don't understand why people want to keep their exes' as Facebook friends. That seems counter-productive.
Author FrostBlaze Posted August 6, 2014 Author Posted August 6, 2014 I don't have her as a friend on FB, but she can message me. Hmm yeah, breadcrumbs, had enough of those >_>. Wouldn't be amazed if she just wants to get a kick out of me, she was that kind of person that randomly liked to talk to guys and make fun of them over the phone/net. I often wondered if she would do it with me too xD or did it.
writergal Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 I don't have her as a friend on FB, but she can message me. Hmm yeah, breadcrumbs, had enough of those >_>. Wouldn't be amazed if she just wants to get a kick out of me, she was that kind of person that randomly liked to talk to guys and make fun of them over the phone/net. I often wondered if she would do it with me too xD or did it. So block her on FB then, and then you won't get any more breadcrumbs, er, I mean, messages from her. Breadcrumbs are like salad croutons. You think they're a good idea until you choke on one, b/c you didn't chew it well enough. Don't choke on any more messages from your ex, OP. She probably does get a kick out of the attention that you give her by responding to her messages on FB. Just stop giving her the attention that she craves. She'll find other men [victims] to torture once you let go.
Author FrostBlaze Posted August 11, 2014 Author Posted August 11, 2014 I know she had been following me on fb for a while, cuz of recent breadcrumbs. So i posted a little enigmatic picture of "how i wish i could go in the past and stop myself from meeting some people xD". Seems she got the message that it was pointed at her so she blocked me on fb herself. Guess that's a good thing?XD
PegNosePete Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 Not really, she can still unblock you and message you whenever she likes. Block her back!
Author FrostBlaze Posted August 11, 2014 Author Posted August 11, 2014 Right now i am slightly ashamed with myself because of the evil thoughts i have in my head. She was a B toward me in the end soo... I'd wait it out to see if she removes my block so i know she misses me ^^, if she doesn't, still a good thing. Pff, playing games, more reason to hate myself, i said i'd never do these kind of things, lol, but it's the truth. Just laying my reasoning out there. If this wasn't me, and i'd read this topic i'd prolly hate myself xD.
No Limit Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 Breadcrumbs sure can boost your ego. But if it gets to the point where you're really annoyed you should just block, otherwise they'll never get it.
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