Cheryl Posted April 18, 1999 Posted April 18, 1999 Well, that pretty much explains it! My father is making me choose between my family and the man that I love! I'm 27 years old! He thinks because this guy has a past that he still is a bad person. I know he's not. Any advice? Thanks.
Jamie Posted May 4, 1999 Posted May 4, 1999 It sounds to me like your dad doesn't really love you-I believe that if someone makes you pick,they don't really love you, anyway. Does your dad have a control problem? But, at the same time, is this guy worth losing your family over? Will your family eventually open the door to you again if you choose this guy? People can change, and you just have to show your dad this guy has changed.
shelly Posted May 27, 1999 Posted May 27, 1999 Well, that pretty much explains it! My father is making me choose between my family and the man that I love! I'm 27 years old! He thinks because this guy has a past that he still is a bad person. I know he's not. Any advice? Thanks. whoa,this sounds exactly like MY problem! i'm moving out next week with my boyfriend who i've been with for over a year now,and my dad has still never met him because he has never said anything good about him cuz he's heard all these untrue rumors about him. anyway,my dad is never happy because i am always with my boyfriend (except for sunday nights when i visit my dad for a few hours). i am 26 years old so my dad should not make me feel guilty for having a life and being with my boyfriend so much. on holidays i always get the guilt trip about why i have to go to his family's house or not stay with mine long enough. i think you and I both are old enough and should not let our parents run our lives. good luck with you! SHELLY
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