triniechu Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 :love:Well I have met someone I am interested in. We've been dating and seeing each other for about 3 weeks now. It's been nothing but amazing and we enjoy each others company so much. Now he did actually ask me to be his girlfriend 3 weeks ago...after our 2nd date. I politely declined and told him I wasn't ready to be in another relationship so quick. So he told me he'd wait until I am ready, that he is very content and happy with what we have now. I also told him when I am ready, I will let him know. Now it's been 3 weeks since he asked me and feelings are starting to blossom. He has also told me last week that he has very strong feelings for me. A few days ago, I told him I really like him and I'm starting to have feelings for him as well. He told me that he's so happy and excited of where this is going. I think I'm going to wait a little bit longer and see how things go. When the time is right I know when I'm ready to be in a ready. But how do I even go about asking him to be my boyfriend? LoL! I've never even asked anyone to be my boyfriend before. I am pretty romantic...do you guys think I should ask him in a romantic setting? When I do tell him Im ready to be in a relationship, I'd love to make it special. What do you guys think? Any suggestions:love: 2
Orije Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Thats good to hear! What you can do is next time you guys go out to eat make sure to have a good time and when things become comfortable and the date is going well, tell him that you like him very much and that you would like him to be your boyfriend. Thats pretty much it. Us guys don't need anything fancy. Just as long as he knows that you like him and want to be with him will be good enough! Hope things go well and congratz! 3
smackie9 Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Just go up to him and say "OK I'm ready now!" and have a laugh about it. 2
Author triniechu Posted August 4, 2014 Author Posted August 4, 2014 Thats good to hear! What you can do is next time you guys go out to eat make sure to have a good time and when things become comfortable and the date is going well, tell him that you like him very much and that you would like him to be your boyfriend. Thats pretty much it. Us guys don't need anything fancy. Just as long as he knows that you like him and want to be with him will be good enough! Hope things go well and congratz! Thank you so much for that! He's made our dates so special and has made me feel very special as well. I just felt like I had to do the same for him and I think he would appreciate that very much He's quite the giver and never expects anything in return. You're right men are very simple and I think me just asking him would make him happy. *sigh* I really do like him, just thinking of him puts a smile on my face.
Author triniechu Posted August 4, 2014 Author Posted August 4, 2014 Just go up to him and say "OK I'm ready now!" and have a laugh about it. ahhahahaa you know that would be pretty awesome!! We would probably laugh about it all night long
me85 Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Awwww congratulations! This is so sweet. No matter how you decide to tell him, I know it will special because the sentiment is romantic all in itself. You could be standing in a run down side of town or in the middle of a loud crowed place but the sweetest words spoken seem to stop time and drown out sound & it's just the two of you looking into one another's eyes and feeling the love between you. 1
Author triniechu Posted August 4, 2014 Author Posted August 4, 2014 Awwww yeahh I feel that no matter what I do, or how I ask him, I think it will just make his day. He told me he can't wait until that day comes ))
Fondue Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Leave a large note in your bathroom, in front of the stall. Simply write: Boyfriend? Yes Flush 2x, No Flush 1x. Next time he sits, you sit (and listen). 4
Author triniechu Posted August 5, 2014 Author Posted August 5, 2014 Hahaha! Funny suggestion! I kinda like it :-P
TB Rhine Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 It should involve some wine and a nice negligee... 1
Author triniechu Posted August 5, 2014 Author Posted August 5, 2014 haha! Those are all great suggestions! guys love that. Not sure about the blow job though :-P
smackie9 Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 Lingerie, blow job and a steak. Steak and Blow job day is March 14th lol 1
TB Rhine Posted August 22, 2014 Posted August 22, 2014 haha! Those are all great suggestions! guys love that. Not sure about the blow job though :-P Things are not looking up.
DazedandConfused8 Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 (edited) :love:Well I have met someone I am interested in. We've been dating and seeing each other for about 3 weeks now. It's been nothing but amazing and we enjoy each others company so much. Now he did actually ask me to be his girlfriend 3 weeks ago...after our 2nd date. I politely declined and told him I wasn't ready to be in another relationship so quick. So he told me he'd wait until I am ready, that he is very content and happy with what we have now. I also told him when I am ready, I will let him know. Now it's been 3 weeks since he asked me and feelings are starting to blossom. He has also told me last week that he has very strong feelings for me. A few days ago, I told him I really like him and I'm starting to have feelings for him as well. He told me that he's so happy and excited of where this is going. I think I'm going to wait a little bit longer and see how things go. When the time is right I know when I'm ready to be in a ready. But how do I even go about asking him to be my boyfriend? LoL! I've never even asked anyone to be my boyfriend before. I am pretty romantic...do you guys think I should ask him in a romantic setting? When I do tell him Im ready to be in a relationship, I'd love to make it special. What do you guys think? Any suggestions:love: Okay, I actually spent all day thinking about this and I think what you did/are doing is messed up. See the bolded part above: he told you he was ready to date and you said "meh, give me a few weeks to finish my shopping around to make sure there's nothing better." Basically, he was already in an exclusive relationship with you since he was waiting for you to declare "I'm ready!" while you were free to run around and explore your options. I don't get the other posters here who are saying it's "cute" that he's waiting for you; it's messed up. Edited August 24, 2014 by DazedandConfused8 1
Author triniechu Posted August 24, 2014 Author Posted August 24, 2014 We are already in an exclusive relationship Also when I told him I wasn't ready, I wasn't talking to any other guy except him. I just wanted to make sure being in a relationship is what I wanted. I was definitely not ready to be his girlfriend the 2nd day we saw each other and on our 2nd date. It was way too soon. We did date for a whole month and I did ask him to be my boyfriend 1
DazedandConfused8 Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 We are already in an exclusive relationship Right, you are now. But when he asked you and you turned him down, you basically made him stick around and "wait" for you while your options were still open. He was exclusively dating you, but you weren't exclusively dating him.
newmoon Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 i'm confused.... if you're dating the guy exclusively and you like each other already, why does there need to be a "you're my bf now!!!" statement. this whole thread makes you seem kinda juvenile. do adults even use the term bf/gf anymore? i thought that was for children and high schoolers.
organizedchaos Posted August 24, 2014 Posted August 24, 2014 i'm confused.... if you're dating the guy exclusively and you like each other already, why does there need to be a "you're my bf now!!!" statement. this whole thread makes you seem kinda juvenile. do adults even use the term bf/gf anymore? i thought that was for children and high schoolers. Yes they do use that term. I'm 43 and people my age, younger, older, still have bf's and gf's. What else would you call them??? 2
Author triniechu Posted August 27, 2014 Author Posted August 27, 2014 Actually while he was waiting...I wasn't running around and "exploring." I just really wanted to get to know him better before we jump into anything. I also wanted to make sure that being in a relationship is what I wanted. I did eventually ask him though and we've been together for about 3 weeks now 1
TB Rhine Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 This poor bastard is going to be eaten alive.
mightycpa Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 How about this? YOU: Remember when you asked me to be your girlfriend? HIM: Yeah.... YOU: Ask me again. That should do the trick.
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