mattny Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Dude. I hate to say this..but you think shes insane? Look in the mirror.... I bet you arent even telling us the full story. If you keep repeating this to us, I can only imagine the non stop calls/messages youve prolly been sending her. And seeing her in public? Its a BIG place...I dont see my ex ANYWHERE. Stop expecting us to give you the answer youre looking for. 1
fred123 Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Dude. I hate to say this..but you think shes insane? Look in the mirror.... I bet you arent even telling us the full story. If you keep repeating this to us, I can only imagine the non stop calls/messages youve prolly been sending her. And seeing her in public? Its a BIG place...I dont see my ex ANYWHERE. Stop expecting us to give you the answer youre looking for. girls are like this. attention whores. my story was no different. she said she reli liked me, was sure if dating me, even promised me she would like me and said i was good looking and there was no reason why she wudnt like me. she came and got off with another guy in front of me so was all lies and now claims we were only ever friends
Mike B. Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 I AM GETTING EXTREMELY IMPATIENT * You strike me as someone who is desperate, obsessive and not used to much attention from women. So you are getting some attention from a woman but no matter how warped it is, you are clinging on to a fantasy. This woman will never give you a kiss, not even on the cheek. Move on with your life.
mattny Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 girls are like this. attention whores. my story was no different. she said she reli liked me, was sure if dating me, even promised me she would like me and said i was good looking and there was no reason why she wudnt like me. she came and got off with another guy in front of me so was all lies and now claims we were only ever friends Attention whores are all words, no actions. i spot those women from a mile away...they talk about how much they love you, youre good lookin etc. I give you two chances. First is benefit of the doubt. Maybe schedules conflicted. The second time around I drop you...especially if you have no follow up plans to make up for the first two. Too many women to obsess over one whos obviously stringing you along.
Author UltimaWeapon Posted August 11, 2014 Author Posted August 11, 2014 If there is a thing called Fate I def believe in it more now I ended up running into her downtown Saturday night when I was with my friends . At a popular bar I usually don't go too so it was really random . She was wit her friend outside. I came up from behind her and tapped her on the shoulder and she was very shocked to see me. The fact I ran into her like that is beyond a mere coincidence because I didn't even talk to her at all that day and had no idea where she was. We spent the next 4 hours together and talked about what we both wanted. She told me she pulled back because I kept askin her wen would we chill and she backed off. I told her only reason I was doing that was because you kept making plans to flop on me She held my hand, was shy around me, was hugging me. She kept asking what my intentions were. Things got physical and we ended up making out for a good amount of time too- all really good signs. She told me she wanted to take things slow and eventually become serious. She said she wanted to be with me. I met her close friend also and gave a really good Impression- she knew about us as well I told her she was giving me completely different signs about being even interested in me because she did not make an attempt to see me at all and if we didn't run into each other like this when would we have? She said she was going to make an attempt in a few days once the new week started. While the time we we spent together was amazing and we both had a great time. I still feel like I'm in too much uncertainty in that I don't know wen we will see each other again and it's all in her court. I really don't want to ask her- I just feel that this will always be the issue. I don't have doubts she isn't interested but at the same time I still keep gettin mixed signals. She told me she wanted to be with me and we were on the same page ... I guess I just wait till she's makes a move??
JungleLover Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 If there is a thing called Fate I def believe in it more now I ended up running into her downtown Saturday night when I was with my friends . At a popular bar I usually don't go too Predictable. This whole stalking thing...
Author UltimaWeapon Posted August 11, 2014 Author Posted August 11, 2014 She told me things would be hard with her because she is busy and that I can't expect to see her all the time. I told her I understand but that if she wants to e with me she has to make time.
Mike B. Posted August 11, 2014 Posted August 11, 2014 Predictable. This whole stalking thing... I know. He probably ran into leprechauns and rode a unicorn to the bar too. We are not 8 years old around here, OP.
Author UltimaWeapon Posted August 11, 2014 Author Posted August 11, 2014 (edited) This city has over 1 million people. I have never ran into her before while downtown at night and I had no idea where she was going to be. I don't even kno her address- so I don't get what you get out of calling me a stalker when that's fate right there. I am asking for advice here not to be called out on things that happened that weren't in my control. I was with my friends trying to enjoy my night. Edited August 11, 2014 by UltimaWeapon
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