Sadmoon Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Hi~~~ I hope someone can give me some insight or inspiration on my situation. I KNOW I must get a divorce. There is no question in that area. That is not the issue. It is getting enough backbone to do it. It is so hard! I don't want get into details of what has happened except to say it has to happen. I don't know if I'm so beaten down that I just can't get motivated to do it or what. Husband is a alcoholic and I think he has pulled me down with him. I do not drink. It is like living with 2 different people. We do have some assets, but I worry about asking for some in the divorce. I do not work. We have been married for 12 years. He has made my life a nightmare. There is no joy or peace. Money is EVERYTHING to him. So, I worry about the rage this will create. I must ask for some of our assets to survive. Plus, I believe I deserve them. It is just scary worrying about his reaction. I don't believe he will be upset about losing me, but more about the money. Thanks in advance for your responses.
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