shz93 Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Ok I posted a thread yesterday but I'll explain in this one too. My ex girlfriend hasn't been well at all, so I went to the train station and met her yesterday. I brought her home and looked after her all day. She has Thanked me and has been texting ever since, before this it was no contact until she had asked how our dog was. This is what started the conversation. We are still talking and sending pictures of our dog and cats (she kept the cats)....does this mean anything? I'd love nothing more than to have her back, there has to be something I can do!
Moonborn Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Reading your other threads, it is too early for you two to be just friends. You didn't have time to heal yet. So you should openly tell her about how you feel. You can't give her emotional support if she doesn't want you back, it's not fair for yourself and it will only torture you. Set boundaries as soon as possible.
d0nnivain Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 It doesn't mean much. Since she's sick, she feels vulnerable. You are familiar & comforting in her time of need. Beyond that, I can't say for sure. You will have to see once she's feeling better.
OwMyEyeball Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 I fell ill for the past couple of weeks and soon found myself pining for my ex. I had fallen out of my usual routine and given myself far too much time to spend in my head. I was emotionally weak. Prior to that I felt I had been recovering nicely and starting to move on with my life. Now that this bug has finally left my system, I feel that sense of advancement returning. I feel less needy. Less vulnerable. Follow the advice given. Wait this one out.
PegNosePete Posted August 5, 2014 Posted August 5, 2014 does this mean anything? I'd love nothing more than to have her back It means you are in for a world of hurt, because she quite clearly DOES NOT want you back. She wants you not to hate her and to send pics of the dogs and cats. That is all. You are the one who is attaching other meaning to it when there is NONE there!
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