joel Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 ok i am 24 yrs old male. never had a gf or dated i was talking to my freind of 4 yrs and then he said that the idea of 24 having no gf or dated is pathetic-also having no kissed a girl, had sex, is a loser. i now its harsh but what do u guys think. i want a gf and to date but its hard, i can;t even hold a conversation, or now what to say. i don;t have any firends at all but that guy, and hes a jerk sometimes, but i don;t want to loose him, b/c i might not be able to find some other freinds out there. oh ya another question if i ever do get a gf should i tell her straight out about her being my first gf and being a virgin and all or should i say i had a couple of gf previously to her, my freind said to lie and say u had 3 or 4 previously to make urself look good. he said being a 24 yr old -lack of gf and all is what u call a dumbazz am i one of the few guys that are that old and never had a gf or dated. i come from a strict and controlling family that was how i was raised. even if i had a gf my folks would have to apporve of her and if not i be getting harassed so much about it.
Hund1976 Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 Well you're 24 years old, you don't need your parents approval to have a girlfriend. If you meet a girl and date her for a few months bring her home to meet your family, if they like her, cool, if not you're 24 so it doesn't matter. I wouldn't tell a girl about your inexperience on the first date, I would just keep it to something like, I haven't dated much. That way you're not lying, but I think saying to a girl "you're my first date!!!" might freak her out a little bit. Anyway good luck, get out and meet lots of people, maybe you'll make some more friends too.
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