emmarose Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 So. I have been talking with a guy for around 3 months now. We have both admitted that we have feelings for each other and that we truly care about each other. However, he has a girlfriend... When we're together we seem like a true couple, but during the time we spend apart from each we hardly communicate. He's told me he is going to eventually break up with his girlfriend. But he somehow just can't bring himself to do it. He also told me he doesn't want a relationship when they're finally over. Should I stick around because we care for each other? Or am I being screwed over? I know relationships are complicated, but if he really wanted to be with me wouldn't he BE with me? Idk. I just like him and hate to give it up.
Dork Vader Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 So. I have been talking with a guy for around 3 months now. We have both admitted that we have feelings for each other and that we truly care about each other. However, he has a girlfriend... When we're together we seem like a true couple, but during the time we spend apart from each we hardly communicate. He's told me he is going to eventually break up with his girlfriend. But he somehow just can't bring himself to do it. He also told me he doesn't want a relationship when they're finally over. Should I stick around because we care for each other? Or am I being screwed over? I know relationships are complicated, but if he really wanted to be with me wouldn't he BE with me? Idk. I just like him and hate to give it up. I would not even waste your time. the guy is not faithful you know that. What makes you think he is going to treat you any differently then he treats his current girl friend? What makes you sooo special? You're not special enough for him to dump her for you. You're not special enough for him to show you some respect and say "I like you but I have a girl friend I don't want to string you a long. I need to end this then take sometime to gather myself afterthat maybe we can date" Dude is a douche and I highly doubt he'll dump her. Even if he does he's told you he doesn't want a relationship after.. So you're not going to get one.
chimpanA-2-chimpanZ Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 "I like you, but not enough to end my current relationship or even eventually have a relationship with you." Send this douche packing.
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