Knicks96 Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 So it would make about 2 months since me and my ex broke up , we broke up because we would fight time to time and just say things we didn't mean to each other . We've been together for 9 months and she was just fed up and said it's best if we end things . I was hurt because I did love her and a week later she got with a new guy , I tried to get her back called non stop but after 2 weeks since the break up I stopped and did the no contact rule . After a month she was talking bad about me on twitter and I texted her saying what's her problem , we fixed it and she wanted to be friends but that would hurt too much so I said no. Anther month passes by and still we haven't spoken . But she would write stuff about me still on twitter , I didn't care anymore anyways last night she called me drunk saying good things about me how I'm a nice person with a good heart and then cursed me out saying I treated her bad and then texted me this morning saying sorry and to forget it ever happened and act like she doesn't exist . What's going on !??? Can someone help me I'm so confused and I do miss her we go to the same school and I'll be seeing her this September for another 9 months
music_and_poetry Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Rule #1 - no contact includes viewing, responding to all forms of social media. Unfollow her or block her if you can't help yourself.
d0nnivain Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 She's drunk. Nothing she does while intoxicated counts. Disregard her calls. As others have said get her off your social media. Not knowing what she's up to or saying about you will help tremendously.
Chi townD Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 I agree. Drunk texts and phonecalls mean nothing. As a matter of fact, she texted you the next morning asking you to forget everything that she said. She sobered up and knew she made a mistake. Unfollow her on all of your social media. And as far as school goes. Avoid her as much as possible. If you know what route she takes to class, take a different one. If there's a party that you know she might attend, find a different one to go to. Study hard and keep busy. You aren't there for her, you're there for your future.
No Limit Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 She's confused. Chances are she feels guilty in case she had left you for that other guy. By all means stay away from her though, she doesn't sound that sane.
lauri Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 She's gone finishing and caught what she's looking for - an ex boyfriend who will take the bait and give her attention. Why are you even picking up this girls phone calls in the first place? She left you for another dude and seems like she is really immature. First she did the twitter thing, got your attention and made you respond. Then yshe continued to do it, you "stopped" caring and she had to draw your attention some other way...aka the drunk call. You need to block and remove her from every type of social media you have. Its really that sinple. She ended it with you man for another guy, why are you going to give her the attention she is craving from you when you should be spending that time and energy bettering yourself and finding a more mature girl. You deserve better. Every time you speak to this girl she will find a way to torture you and lure you back in. Enough is enough, you can do it and move forward. If you see her, act unaffected by her and keep on moving forward. No more satisfaction for her..stop making her feel better and making yourself feel worse.
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