Hippie95 Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 Was with my ex a few years ago and he was cheating on me and sneaking around the whole time. I ended it. 5 years later he comes back promising me he has changed and he won't do anything to wreck us this time. 8 months in I found out he had messaged his ex and met up with her (a friend of a friend told me), i confronted him and he denied it, then found out that it was true. I stayed with him even though i promised myself if he did this kind of this again id leave, too many chances i thought. (He also blocked her and said he would never talk to her again.) A few weeks later, his phone goes off with a message from her (so he obviously unblocked her,) then when i asked to see the message, he said he 'accidentally deleted it.' I left him after that because i figured it was pretty black and white, no reason to delete the message right? Then they are back together within a week of us breaking up. I then got told my someone who asked him why we split, his answer was 'she left me cause my ex messaged me.' Did i over react? or was my reasons good enough? Why is he saying that to people?
SoThatHappened Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 Did i over react? Not one bit was my reasons good enough? Absolutely!!! Why is he saying that to people? To assuage his guilt and give an excuse. He knows the real reason you left, and that reason is more than justified. He's hiding his own faults. He's possibly narcissistic. You did the right thing.
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