SycamoreCircle Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 What would be your judgment of a 45 year-old-man who asks out a 25 year-old-woman to have her say "no, I live with my boyfriend", then a month later she contacts the man and arranges to come over to his place in secret(boyfriend is at work)? Said woman then breaks up with her boyfriend and a few weeks later 45 year-old-man, at her bidding, comes to her now ex-boyfriend's apartment to "help" her move out(ex-boyfriend is at work). Woman aside, how would you judge such a man as this?
d0nnivain Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 He's an opportunist but beyond that I can't say much else. It seems that the 25 year old made her choice & the man is now helping her move on to him. I feel bad for the dumped BF but what do you want, a condemnation of the man?
Simon Phoenix Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 He's a dude who likes younger chicks and she obviously likes him.
Art_Critic Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 I wouldn't judge him, but he sure just got used....
daisydook Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 (edited) What would be your judgment of a 45 year-old-man who asks out a 25 year-old-woman to have her say "no, I live with my boyfriend", then a month later she contacts the man and arranges to come over to his place in secret(boyfriend is at work)? Said woman then breaks up with her boyfriend and a few weeks later 45 year-old-man, at her bidding, comes to her now ex-boyfriend's apartment to "help" her move out(ex-boyfriend is at work). Woman aside, how would you judge such a man as this? I would think he is interested in having sex with her, and maybe even dating her. I'm not exactly sure what you are asking to judge here. Are you asking is it terrible for this man to have done this? He asked her out. She said no. He backed off. She called him a month later to come and play around, cheated, and asked for help to move out of her boyfriends place shortly after that. That is how I read the story. If a 45 year old man is capable of bedding a 25 year old female, why not, right? Opportunity... Lol. I would be more concerned with her behaviour than this 45 year old. Although I do not agree with this whole meeting in secret, I am not sure here whether or not the 45 y/o knew what game he was playing, so it is hard to say. In this elusive hypothetical story, does the 45 year old know this is a secret and she cheated with him? Or did he think they had broken up? Was he a willing participant to infidelity? I am sorry I cannot be more helpful. I am not sure which role you play in this story, or why you are asking. Are you the guy she left or the 45 year old? Either way, I'm more judgmental of her behaviour than anyone else's. She is a cheater, and that stuck out at me more than anything here. Edited August 3, 2014 by daisydook word missing
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