clearmind Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 I treated him good catered to all his needs and that was my mistake it seems the worse you treat men the more they value you I guess you guys never want what you can have now he's out wandering around Las Vegas single and slutty and probably loving it... not sure what I did to deserve this pain but I know this is mostly my ego .. I tried so hard to keep him happy but in the end I know he is just unhappy inside or maybe just unhappy being in a relationship ... God I hope I get over this pain soon it's been 4 months since break 3 weeks no contact gotta stay strong thanks for listening
somedude81 Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 Any chance he had the reputation of being a slut before you started dating him?
hoping2heal Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 I treated him good catered to all his needs and that was my mistake it seems the worse you treat men the more they value you I guess Nope, this is false. This is almost like the female version of "nice guy syndrome" :sick: Anyway, an FYI: If treating a man well results him in treating you poorly, then congrats you've just spotted the rotten egg in the bunch. A rotten egg who no doubt is self-seeking and self-serving in all things. Good men treat you well in return to your good treatment. They appreciate you and show you care and love. They don't dangle a carrot in front of you and watch you chase it or make you jump through hoops for them and take while the getting is good. you guys never want what you can have now he's out wandering around Las Vegas single and slutty and probably loving it... not sure what I did to deserve this pain but I know this is mostly my ego .. I tried so hard to keep him happy but in the end I know he is just unhappy inside or maybe just unhappy being in a relationship ... God I hope I get over this pain soon it's been 4 months since break 3 weeks no contact gotta stay strong Yes, this is exactly the disposition of the woman that the type of men (rotten eggs) I described above seek out. Someone who responds to mistreatment not by leaving but rather...trying harder! You made a poor choice of man, but that doesn't mean I think you deserve to be hurt for it. I hope this will make you stop and think about the next guy you hook up with.
Tbisb74 Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 I treated him good catered to all his needs and that was my mistake it seems the worse you treat men the more they value you I guess you guys never want what you can have now he's out wandering around Las Vegas single and slutty and probably loving it... not sure what I did to deserve this pain but I know this is mostly my ego .. I tried so hard to keep him happy but in the end I know he is just unhappy inside or maybe just unhappy being in a relationship ... God I hope I get over this pain soon it's been 4 months since break 3 weeks no contact gotta stay strong thanks for listening This doesn't demean him, it demeans you. First you say he's slutty, then you consider he might be unhappy. People find outlets for their unhappiness in many ways. Some people drink, some do drugs, some gamble, and many, many women, shop. You suggest he's channelling his unhappiness through slutty behaviour? What, does he have sex in the open? How do you know what he's doing unless you're keeping tabs on him? That what keeps you pining, sad and stuck. Hurling insults and deriding his behaviour just shows you up as bitter. Quit doing this, it's just a form of self-torture.
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