chris21422 Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 (edited) I've been thinking of her still everyday.. Am I just lying to myself that I'm over her?? I'm actually happy the past few months focusing on myself financial and career wise and I thought I was over her.. But today keep on asking myself Am I really over her?? Or am I just pretending that I am over her? It sucks All i can do is to drink alcohol and forget this day even existed.. My birthday is july 29th.. she didn't even greet me.. That sucks I guess.. to someone just forget about you completely.. I am seeing someone else but meeh I don't think it's helping me at all.. Sucks guys I hope today is just a bad day.. Edited August 3, 2014 by chris21422
somedude81 Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 Sucks that you seeing somebody else isn't helping you get over your ex. That's pretty much what I'm counting on.
erklat Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 I feel the same all the time. It will get better. This is not the same gut twisting pain I felt in March and April. Fake it till you make it.
Author chris21422 Posted August 3, 2014 Author Posted August 3, 2014 Is that really what we need to do? Fake it till you make it? Fake it till you make it. 1
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 Is that really what we need to do? Fake it till you make it? Yep its exactly what you have to do x
irresolute Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 You have no choice but to move on. Fake it or go counseling. Think that this process can take up to 2 years. It's reasonable she did not greet you for your bday. Why for? She's not your friend she's nothing anymore
samg313 Posted August 3, 2014 Posted August 3, 2014 Ya dating only takes you so far, it's really hard to meet someone that the stars line up to make you feel a certain way about them. It has been a decent amount longer for me and I still think about the Ex often. I even dated a girl for a few months that was more attractive, had more going for herself, had less baggage and seemed like a better person than my ex but the chemistry,conversation,common interests and other things were not there like the other 2 times in life I genuinely fell in love. So I decided it was best not to waste the other person's time. One day I will be over it completely and then the search will begin again. 1
Author chris21422 Posted August 4, 2014 Author Posted August 4, 2014 lol thanks everyone it turns out yesterday was just a bad day.. that was my first since months.. I'm doing good now and back being happy 2
Smarty Pants Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Fake it till you make it. Then you'll find someone better and you'll know you're over her. Ps. Probably shouldn't be with this other girl if you aren't over your ex. Isn't really fair to her.
barky2 Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Chris, long time no talk. There is no time limit on bouncing back from a breakup. I know " older people 50+" that divorced 10+ years later and still hung up on them. I've said this a few times, if someone ment something to you, significantly, at any part of your life, you will always think or feel some type of way. You need to look at where you were then, and where you are now. I'm sure you're a million times better. It's normal, trust me. Hang in there. Barky 3
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