Mysterio Posted August 2, 2014 Posted August 2, 2014 From the time you entertained yourself, into getting into a Love relationship to the time you were really in to it. What has been your personal experiance? For me. It seems to me like most people are in lust for the most part. Real love takes time and is more there with my female friends, more than any dating relationship. Love to me is caring about the person beyond any gooey honeymoon period. Men and Women are really sold a distorted view on love. Its like Men think that sex will be in abundance. For some reason. It really feels like for me. I have to let go of the conventional thinking that showing a woman romantic interest makes her want me that way or think of me in that way. All the women that have really showed me romantic interest. Have just popped into my life. I really did not have to do anything major. All the women that have been resistant to my charms. Really don't loo at me that way. Advising myself. I really should live my life and let the universe bring it to me, more than me seeking it. Sometimes I wish I could just switch off my love desire. I know its more than lust. Yet I don't know why its a big deal to me at this age of 43. Even in the best of times. It always feels tough for me to gain a love interest in my life.
d0nnivain Posted August 2, 2014 Posted August 2, 2014 Women generally need to be in love to have sex. Men need sex to fall in love. It's different for everybody. Lust isn't a bad thing but alone is it a poor substitute for love.
marcjb Posted August 2, 2014 Posted August 2, 2014 Love is a combination of choice (to be together) & action (to show it) -ONLY- after the honeymoon phase.
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