bigntall Posted August 1, 2014 Posted August 1, 2014 New to this forum and just thought I would give it shot. Coming off a long term relationship and the divorce was finalized at the beginning of this year. My past SO is having second thoughts and reconciliation has been discussed. I would entertain the thought of doing this. My question is this. Even before the divorce was finalized my SO had someone in their life. This person is still there but in and out of the picture (so I've been told) and don't really feel comfortable trying to start the process with the feeling that I may have to continually look over my shoulder. I am in a much better place today but do miss the family and my SO. I am working on me, getting physically and emotionally healthy every day. Let me know what ya think 1
J2911 Posted August 1, 2014 Posted August 1, 2014 I think you should continue doing a good job and keep working on you. I would suggest making sure that your past SO is long over any off and on relationship before you get into that . Good luck to you
Author bigntall Posted August 12, 2014 Author Posted August 12, 2014 That being said what should contact look like? I have been debating NC for quite a while and was wondering if that would be the right thing for me. SO wants to 'talk' daily and just not sure if i want to do that right now
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