SkylerJean Posted August 1, 2014 Posted August 1, 2014 We met 6 years ago and we've never really been officially together but I've loved him since day one. We've tried so many times to make it work but we never can. We just end up hurting ourselves and the people we care for. I'm not proud to say that we've both cheated on other people to be with each other but I totally lose myself when he's near me. I told him that I didn't want him like this anymore that I want it to be real and he said he does to but it's not "the right time for us". I'm beginning to wonder if it will ever come. He says he loves me and he wants to marry me and have a family but he keeps stalling. I'm 24 this has been going on since I was 18. But no matter what I can't get over him and believe me I've tried. Everyone else I've ever been with just felt like fillers or time killers just until he would come back. I feel like the universe keeps bringing us together for a reason. Like he belongs to me no matter who else is in the way. I know it sounds crazy. I don't know what else to say. He's hurt me so many times but I feel like because I've waited so long And took so much crap that I'm entitled to a happy ending now. Advice?
Zahara Posted August 1, 2014 Posted August 1, 2014 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/platonic/friendship/378112-posting-here-complete-desperation Is this the same guy from last year that you are posting about? I'm a little confused as you state you were 19 in 2013 (above thread) but now you are 24?
deathandtaxes Posted August 1, 2014 Posted August 1, 2014 This might just be a situation where professional help is needed.
Gaeta Posted August 1, 2014 Posted August 1, 2014 Try harder. You are 100% responsible for what you bring into your life. It's not destiny, there is nothing meant to be, life is not a fairy tale, it's hard and cruel and unfair and you are allowing a hard-cruel-unfair situation to come in and out of your life as if your life was a windmill. Shut the doors. You are 100% responsible for what you DON'T bring into your life. Which means bad people don't just disappear, you have to make them disappear, you've have to make a decision and take actions to put them out of your life. All you do now is letting life walk all over you without having any saying in it. Stop being a victim.
BlueIris Posted August 1, 2014 Posted August 1, 2014 He's hurt me so many times but I feel like because I've waited so long And took so much crap that I'm entitled to a happy ending now. Advice? Well, no one is entitled to anything. We get what we create with our own efforts. But, that aside, go have a happy ending. Leave him and start a life free of the drama. If you have to move far away to do it, move far away. However young you are, you're young but old enough to be capable of setting your own direction and creating the life you want.
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