Author ktya Posted August 6, 2014 Author Posted August 6, 2014 How could he ever talk to her again? You're presumably not going to let him stay with you anymore, so I don't see why they would cross paths or it would even be an issue, unless they've made plans to meet up or something. In which case....well, that would just be plain weird. Absolutely wont be staying with me. I know he has her number and she told me he called her but she didnt return the call as she wasnt sure if i told him anything as we had talked ourselves just before. I told him to stay a million miles away and not to even think about "helping" i can look after myself. More info has been revealed.. He apparently hit her up with some stern "dont break his heart" talk before all of this which is bullsht as me and the girl had talked about trying to keep it as friends who sleep with eachother even though we both admitted were heading into a relationship at a million miles an hour but were trying to not rush into anything. Apparently this gave her the impression that in her absence i told him i was madly in love and looking for a serious relationship which would be a logical conclusion for her to make. Except that i never said any such thing... Only thing i said was "oh boy here we go, here i dont want a girlfriend but dollars to donuts i bet ill end up with a girlfriend out of this girl before i even know it". Luckily i talked to the girl about him and his history with my previous girlfriends (talking out of both sides of his mouth, telling each of us different stories some exaggerated, some made up. Causing problems, trying to kiss my ex, etc) and she seemed to wake up to he scenario a bit and asked, "why he F cant he just get his own girls?!? Hes good enough looking why crowd your girls like that? What a jealous prick"
preraph Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 No way to justify what your friend was telling her unless you have been known to be violent to women, in which case warnings are merited. Otherwise, he's either out to sabotage you or wants her.
Author ktya Posted August 6, 2014 Author Posted August 6, 2014 No way to justify what your friend was telling her unless you have been known to be violent to women, in which case warnings are merited. Otherwise, he's either out to sabotage you or wants her. I have never been violent towards a woman in my entire life, even when i discovered that my ex fiancee had carried on an 8 month affair behind my back which would probably be where id break loose if i ever would. I think hes just jealous that i landed such a hottie and we look so happy when together. Not dissimilar to when i was with my ex, i had the girl, the family the house and boat and he moved through that like a train wreck too.
serial muse Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 Absolutely wont be staying with me. I know he has her number and she told me he called her but she didnt return the call as she wasnt sure if i told him anything as we had talked ourselves just before. She gave him her phone number?? Um, why??? :confused: Who is this guy, Svengali? me and the girl had talked about trying to keep it as friends who sleep with eachother even though we both admitted were heading into a relationship at a million miles an hour but were trying to not rush into anything. Apparently this gave her the impression that in her absence i told him i was madly in love and looking for a serious relationship which would be a logical conclusion for her to make. so either she's worried you're too into her or else not into her enough, and either was enough for her to walk out for a while? I'm confused by this whole thing.
Author ktya Posted August 6, 2014 Author Posted August 6, 2014 She gave him her phone number?? Um, why??? :confused: Who is this guy, Svengali? so either she's worried you're too into her or else not into her enough, and either was enough for her to walk out for a while? I'm confused by this whole thing. I wasnt there for the number exchange, but she said he feels like a big brother to her so im not too worried about it. The moral of the story is that when someone inserts themselves into your relationship with a girl it can really confuse matters. Me and the girl never had any problems, misunderstandings or arguments until he started "helping". And its way less than help thats for sure.
Mrs Carter Posted August 6, 2014 Posted August 6, 2014 The moral of the story is that when someone inserts themselves into your relationship with a girl it can really confuse matters. Me and the girl never had any problems, misunderstandings or arguments until he started "helping". And its way less than help thats for sure. The moral of the story is that no-one can stir shlt up between two mature adults this much. 37 and you have this much drama in your life? How about learning how to pick people?
Author ktya Posted August 6, 2014 Author Posted August 6, 2014 The moral of the story is that no-one can stir shlt up between two mature adults this much. 37 and you have this much drama in your life? How about learning how to pick people? Lol true. Ive known the guy since i was 12. Touche
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