Dork Vader Posted August 1, 2014 Posted August 1, 2014 If you took the time to attempt to read my jumbled mess about my recent break up. You then know it was messy. That said.. My ex was having a very inappropriate relationship with her best friends husband via text. According to my ex her best friend would have been okay with it. She also claims to have told the friend about it all. Which would not surprise me if that was a lie. I know for a fact she told her best friends sister about it. But it was a very G rated version of what was going on. I'd assume the same happened with the actual spouse. Part of me feels like this woman (the spouse) needs to know it's going on. But a part of me feels like it is none of my business. The other part of me feels like it's I should not get involved and if the "best friend" is really that clueless it's her own dumb fault.
deathandtaxes Posted August 1, 2014 Posted August 1, 2014 Do you know this spouse? If this spouse was your friend, I'd say go ahead and say what's up. But if not, let it go. It's your ex's business, not your's.
Author Dork Vader Posted August 1, 2014 Author Posted August 1, 2014 I already answered my own question. I think it's best even if I know her just to leave it as is. If the "friend" is that clueless and dumb it is her own problem. I would not have been doing it out of anger towards my ex. I know Karma will catch her. But I do know if I had been in the spouses position I would want to know.
AnneT1985 Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 I'm glad you were able to come to an answer that works for you:) Best of luck to you! xx
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