Author liove Posted July 31, 2014 Author Posted July 31, 2014 What? Nobody is against you. We're trying to help you out here. If you don't want to call then don't. But you asked for advice, the best way to get another chance with him. We have told you that. Now if you want to ignore that advice then go ahead, there's no legal obligation to follow anything anyone says on here. If he answers then tell him you have been thinking about your actions, that you realize you have been playing stupid games because you like him and wish to start over with a more mature and straightforward approach, and that you'd like to see him on saturday. If he doesn't answer then leave a voicemail saying the same. ok, but what if overanalyzed everything and actually the reason he is not replying anymore is either extremely busy or found somebody else. wouldnt that be a little crazy/strange/ if I start with my remorse speech on his voice mail?!
Author liove Posted July 31, 2014 Author Posted July 31, 2014 Pretty confident you sent him packing faster than you even managed to pack your luggage! Why the heck would you play with him like that? You should call him. Even if you've only texted up until now. It shows effort, and it shows you care. IT WAS A JOOOKE! i knew from the beginning i wanted to see him but it was ironic like you know i have to get out the garbage so wont be available which implies exactly the opposite no one understands my sens of humor
MidwestUSA Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 IT WAS A JOOOKE! i knew from the beginning i wanted to see him but it was ironic like you know i have to get out the garbage so wont be available which implies exactly the opposite no one understands my sens of humor Maybe he didn't understand your sense of humor either? Because none of us are getting it. It was a joke - in YOUR mind. 2
Gaeta Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 IT WAS A JOOOKE! i knew from the beginning i wanted to see him but it was ironic like you know i have to get out the garbage so wont be available which implies exactly the opposite no one understands my sens of humor A joke goes like this: Oh can't see you Saturday go to do my luggage hahaha , just kidding I'd be delighted to see you Saturday! The proof he didn't take it as a joke is you don't freakin have a date with him Saturday right! 3
PegNosePete Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 ok, but what if overanalyzed everything and actually the reason he is not replying anymore is either extremely busy or found somebody else. wouldnt that be a little crazy/strange/ if I start with my remorse speech on his voice mail?! Look you've been given the same good advice by many, many people. If you're just going to make excuses to not follow it, what is the point in asking for advice? It's time to choose, are you going to go for it or just hide away and forget about him? Anyway I've said my advice so I'm out now. Good luck! 2
Author liove Posted July 31, 2014 Author Posted July 31, 2014 i will call him ok, case closed one more question though: wouldnt i look desperate and chase him even further away?! but...i really dont understand guys, you either like girls who are challenging for you or not! i dont know how to act anymore...really
martaldn Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 Multiple Orgasms for Men.. #sex #orgasm #Kink Unusual Sexual Turn-Ons ? A Guide to Multiple Orgasms for Men - Love 'n' Shove :rolleyes:
PegNosePete Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 but...i really dont understand guys, you either like girls who are challenging for you or not! You're suggesting that maybe, just maybe... shock horror... not all guys are the same?! No, how can it be? Isn't there some kind of production line that guys come off, all exactly identical, all thinking and liking the same things???
Author liove Posted July 31, 2014 Author Posted July 31, 2014 You're suggesting that maybe, just maybe... shock horror... not all guys are the same?! No, how can it be? Isn't there some kind of production line that guys come off, all exactly identical, all thinking and liking the same things??? yeah but i never know which one is which ....
deathandtaxes Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 i will call him ok, case closed one more question though: wouldnt i look desperate and chase him even further away?! but...i really dont understand guys, you either like girls who are challenging for you or not! i dont know how to act anymore...really I think a lot of guys like genuine interest and honesty. 2
PegNosePete Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 yeah but i never know which one is which .... BOYS like games. MEN like honesty. 3
fred123 Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 i will call him ok, case closed one more question though: wouldnt i look desperate and chase him even further away?! but...i really dont understand guys, you either like girls who are challenging for you or not! i dont know how to act anymore...really u dont understand guys? wtf its girls like u that make us guys impossible to read u. jeez
Author liove Posted July 31, 2014 Author Posted July 31, 2014 nevermind...he finally replied (after 10 hours!! ) and we see each other on saturday but god i've learned my lesson!! i'm telling ya...
sillyanswer Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 nevermind...he finally replied (after 10 hours!! ) and we see each other on saturday but god i've learned my lesson!! i'm telling ya... So you're not going to avoid his kisses this time? Have fun on your date!
Mascara Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 Well, maybe he was just playing hard to get. Or maybe he just wasn't very interested. See how hard it is to tell the difference? And how someone with any amount of self esteem would just give up when people "play games"? 1
Gaeta Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 I am pretty sure that he responded that late because when he saw your communication he felt he was just an afterthought ! Like your Saturday night plans got cancelled so now you were reaching out to him.
Author liove Posted July 31, 2014 Author Posted July 31, 2014 I am pretty sure that he responded that late because when he saw your communication he felt he was just an afterthought ! Like your Saturday night plans got cancelled so now you were reaching out to him. for sure, my luggage dumped me so here i am, making plans on a saturday night with a boy god dammit stupid luggage
writergal Posted July 31, 2014 Posted July 31, 2014 for sure, my luggage dumped me so here i am, making plans on a saturday night with a boy god dammit stupid luggage Ha, ha! Have fun on your date Saturday and just remember ALWAYS BE YOURSELF. Leave the push-pull/hot-cold dating games to artists like
preraph Posted August 1, 2014 Posted August 1, 2014 First, you turned him down for Saturday night, which is fine, but did you expect him to come stand under your window at midnight and serenade to talk you into it or what? WTF? Second, why do people think anyone is obligated to do constant back-and-forth texting for no reason?? People should have better ways to spend their time.
Calcmag Posted August 1, 2014 Posted August 1, 2014 I really hope that you've learned your lesson OP. A silly family member of mine has behaved like this with someone she really cares about...and now the chickens are coming home to roost and I suspect she's lost him forever. Do NOT play games..learn to be comfortable being yourself. I often think that the people who have to play games like 'guess how I feel about you' are very insecure.
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