Pendawn Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 Okay new guy and I have had 3 great dates, but we're still taking it slow, only seeing each other once a week etc seeing how we get on. We're not taking it slowly in bed though. Anyway our next date is his birthday and he's coming over to my place. He said he doesn't want a big fuss, but I would like to make a little fuss. But I don't want to freak him out by seeming too keen or doing too much, anyone got ideas for a little gift or treat or something I could do for him?
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 Bring him a small cake for the two of you to share, with a candle in it, and some flowers and a card. You don't need to give him something to remember you by, so anything consumable will do that is from the heart.
tattoomytoe Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 bake a cake, betty crocker is good! baking shows you put a little more time into it.
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 Get him a card and a coupon to be his sex slave for the night. Its only been 3 dates. Its a little early to be baking him a cake. You might seem pushy. Its not that serious yet.
tattoomytoe Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 a cake mix and icing cost less than most hallmark cards! everyone has a cake on their b-day, so i do not see it as any big indicator of one thing or another.... just that you care, and practically everyone likes cake!
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 Tru tru But to me it says "I slaved over a hot stove and iced it all day long and went to baking classes to learn how to write your name in icing b/c i'm falling in love with you" A card says Happy Birthday and the love coupon means you both get some.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 Originally posted by IhavenoFREAKINclue Get him a card and a coupon to be his sex slave for the night. Its only been 3 dates. Its a little early to be baking him a cake. You might seem pushy. Its not that serious yet. Too early to bake a cake? But not too early to be his sex slave??? How about just a cupcake with a candle just for him?
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 Originally posted by mom-wife-cheater Too early to bake a cake? But not too early to be his sex slave??? Not if she said there not taking their intimacy slowly. How about just a cupcake with a candle just for him? Great idea! Its say happy birthday, but its not a huge whole needy cake!
Author Pendawn Posted February 25, 2005 Author Posted February 25, 2005 Thanks all for your replies! Apologies for not getting back earlier but my computer has died a death, having to use a steam driven one. I think if I baked him a cake, I may very well kill him but i do like the cupcake idea. i actually know you can buy little individual iced birthday cakes so I'll see if i can get him one of those. Was thinking of making him either a gift certificate which entitles him to the sex act of his choice, or a VIP pass to my body any time he likes - which kind of suggests I hope to be with him in future without being too emotion related. Anyway thanks again, everyone on this board is the best.
Fritz Posted February 26, 2005 Posted February 26, 2005 I think if I baked him a cake, I may very well kill him but i do like the cupcake idea wha? Come on now. Its not that hard to make a cake, especially a betty crocker mix. If me, a single guy can make one in about 45 minutes (including cooking time) its not hard.
Hund1976 Posted February 26, 2005 Posted February 26, 2005 I would like it if someone baked me a cake. I think people should be capable of buying a box of Betty Crocker cake mix and breaking some eggs, mixing it all together and putting some icing on it. Remember only use the inside of the eggs, throw the shells away!!! Get him a funny card too. That should be fine for a 4th date.
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