Ordinaryday Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 Oh I understand. Why is it so hard for you to understand that it's not normal?! You won't get over someone until you don't care anymore. The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. I get that you don't care if you're rude to her, which is bizarre. When is it ever cool to be a rude person? It isn't. You should worry about yourself instead of stressing and screwing about over some chick you don't give a damn about anymore. As for her timing when she broke up with you, would you have rathered she stay with you until your bad patch was over, even if she didn't want to be? Doubt it. Move on. Way way on! of course I would have preferred her to stay with me during my bad patch, because that is what a partner does - supports their partner during the rough times as well as the good times! of course I would have preferred her to stay with me and support me and actually do what a girlfriend is supposed to do instead of just giving up and deciding it is all too much and offering me a meaningless "lets just be friends" gesture! it is completely okay to be rude to people who were nasty to you, and I will never go out of my way to do it, but as several dumpers have found out, I dont take nicely to getting a breadcrumb two years after they wiped their hands of me. 1
Justaguy30 Posted August 4, 2014 Posted August 4, 2014 I see her driving around town pretty often, it always makes my skin crawl a little bit. I still miss her and love her, she stalks me by driving by my house and asking my friends about me which is weird because she doesn't want anything to do with me. Its probably because we were friends for many years before we dated. Who knows, its still painful to me.
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