Halo82 Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 I've been going out with this girl who was formerly my boss at work. We've only gone on four dates, but we have talked to each other on the phone for at least 4 months. I recently told her that I really liked her and that she is speacial to me. She told me she felt the same way. Both of us had never been in a real relationship before, so we don't know where to go from here. Would it be the right time to ask her to be my girlfriend, or should I wait a little longer?
dontbeafraid Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 If you like her and she returns the same feelings...why not ask her out? I would hang out and go on dates a couple of more times before you actually ask her to be your girlfriend...Remember the first few months are all roses then you get to the nitty gritty You might get to know her a little better and realize maybe she not the one or the person you hoped she be Just take it slow and don't be afraid of rejection...you'll never know until you ask.
tiki Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 I think that after a couple of months of dating, it's ample time to determine whether or not she is girlfriend material, and vice versa. Although, if she makes it clear from the get-go, go for it!!!
jd69 Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 the only thing i can tell u is to be careful, u could end up getting hurt. i dont know where she was the boss but sometimes the feeling of independence they get can also become a lack of commitment. i was seeing a girl for about two months and i really liked her and we talked on the phone all the time, but when i asked her if we were "official" she said she didnt have the time to be in a "commited" relationship and that ended our relationshipo just like that were still friends so like i said before just be careful.
haywood Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 just my opinion...don't bring it up. don't say anything about you wanting her to be your girlfriend. sounds cruel but let her bring it up. she should feel like she's your gf by the way you act and treat her. it'll become obvious to her that you do care. remember actions speak louder than words. she'll ask you what's going on and then you can tell her that you see her as your gf and ask if that bothers her. you'll get your answer.
clynn Posted February 25, 2005 Posted February 25, 2005 see now, as a girl, I wouldn't bring up the topic and I wouldn't ask if he was my bf or what? I'd wait around for HIM to bring it up!! Ha ha!! however, you could just wait a bit and behave in the manner of bf/gf and sooner or later other people may refer to you guys that way and if you're comfortable and she is comfortable, then it'll just kind of become that way. You can also just refer to her as girlfriend and then she'll know!
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