Ashley S Posted July 30, 2014 Posted July 30, 2014 Hey everyone! If you have been reading my latest posts then you know who I am talking about. I was conflicted weather or not this guy I liked was truly bragging about this girl? Or if he was trying to make me jealous? Well, weirdly my mother ran into him. He had his daughter with him and he insisted on my mom taking pics with her. So then my mom said "I saw your girlfriend on FB, she's cute!" She said he looked down and said "Yeah" and then he said "She's nice, she doesn't drink or smoke or even swear, she has a 6 year old though" My mom said he wasn't gushy, or smiling as he was saying it, she said he said it as if he was talking about the weather lol. Anyways, then my mom said "Oh did both of your kids meet?" He said "No they are suppose to tonight, but I don't think I will have time" So then a couple of hours later he posted a pic of him and the girl. I just think now he is really infatuated with this girl and he doesn't give a damn about me. I thought before he was trying to make me jealous, but now I am thinking he just is really into her, and I don't matter. When I have been his biggest supporter! I have treated him with respect pushed him through a lot of bad times, encouraged him, paid for things and didn't expect to be paid back etc. This is how I get repaid? He doesn't contact me and seems to be all over this girl. It really hurts me, cause I cared so much about him. What I don't get though is that he acted kinda evasive with my mom. He bragged about to her my brother, so there is no difference. Write in what you think about this. Would love to hear some advice or opinions. I am heartbroken Thanks.
WrinkledForehead Posted July 30, 2014 Posted July 30, 2014 "...didn't expect to be paid back etc. This is how I get repaid?" Clearly you did anticipate some sort of return investment on his part, even if it wasn't financial reciprocation. He's met someone. I know it hurts, but he made no commitment to you. Its time to move on.
ExpatInItaly Posted July 30, 2014 Posted July 30, 2014 Again, you need to tell your family to not report updates about him to you. That is completely unnecessary. Why do you they continue to do so? If I remember correctly, he did pursue you for a while but you weren't interested. Unfortunately, he doesn't really owe you anything. It's painful but that sometimes happens in life. Unfair things happen, and there isn't always a happy or fair ending. I'm sorry OP, but it's time to move on. He seems to be doing so already.
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